Housewives Life

What to present on Holiday?

2009-12-02T05:08:00.000-08:00

This weekend was officially opened the Holiday Shopping.

I think it;s time ti think seriously about Holidays gifts, about what you'll wear in the New Year night and what to present to your family: parents, children and husband.

I like to present gifts, especially on Holidays. I like to plug the lights on the tree.
Great Holidays... Great Gifts and happiness.

You can shows your respect and love for close persons namely on this time. It means that the gifts that you are ready to present them should show your love and admiration.

What to present on this Holiday? maybe, tees, balls, towels, club covers, visors and so on. The list of gifts are so long that sometime is impossible to read the end.

So, what to present on Holiday to my husband?

Time Bomb

2009-11-27T07:04:00.000-08:00

You need: A clock or an egg timer.

How to play: Pick a time interval -- 20 minutes, let's say. (If you're like us, even 10 minutes will be a change from the norm.)

Whatever interval you choose, absolutely do not allow penetration until that much time has elapsed.

Why: Most busy couples have foreplay down to a science -- and a bare minimum as well. "Time Bomb" refocuses you on the pregame show, the part that used to be so much fun before you lived together.

You'll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. You get really creative. You get really hot.

The retro housewife

2009-10-08T06:09:00.000-07:00

What does the Retro housewife day look like? Well, we get up, get our kids off to school, pack our hubbies a sandwich and wish them a safe drive. Then our day is OPEN? Some of us watch Oprah or the Soaps, some have a regular routine, for housewives with children our lives revolve around them and their activities, some paint do charity work...or maybe we run a home based business.

Some Retros have money, and for them running the house is comparable to running a small company, managing the staff, scheduling the projects, projecting an image of perfection to the outside world.

The best Retros understand that their purpose is to make life worth living for themselves and their families. That, no matter their income level or social status, they are the center of their families universe and the one who has the difficult task of making the most out of whatever resources are available to them.

In keeping a house, the job is to make it a home. In raising children, it is to turn out well balanced emotionally stable human beings that have the confidence and personal convictions they will need to make their way productively and happily in life. In being a wife, our job is one of support, confidante, companion, lover and best friend.

No small order, but in the end, we are the ones that make the difference in the lives of the other members of our families. Whoever coined the term "little woman" had not the slightest idea of what he spoke, for it is truly "the hand that rocks the cradle" that is an accurate depiction of our role.

We get many emails from housewives who identify with our general opinions on things, and stories about their lives and daily activities. In this section, we are highlighting the things we found in common amongst the hundreds of letters we get.

Glen Campbell - Dreams Of The Everyday Housewife lyrics

2009-08-26T04:32:00.000-07:00

She looks in the mirror and stares at the wrinkles that weren't there yesterday
And thinks of the young man that she almost married
What would he think if he saw her this way?

She picks up her apron in little girl-fashion as something comes into her mind
Slowly starts dancing rememb'ring her girlhood
And all of the boys she had waiting in line

Oh, such are the dreams of the everyday housewife
You see ev'rywhere any time of the day
An everyday housewife who gave up the good life for me

The photograph album she takes from the closet and slowly turns the page
And carefully picks up the crumbling flower
The first one he gave her now withered with age

She closes her eyes and touches the house dress that suddenly disappears
And just for the moment she's wearing the gown
That broke all their minds back so many years

Oh, such are the dreams of the everyday housewife
You see ev'rywhere any time of the day
An everyday housewife who gave up the good life for me

Oh, such are the dreams of the everyday housewife
You see ev'rywhere any time of the day
An everyday housewife who gave up the good life for me

Oh, such are the dreams of the everyday housewife

FADE
You see ev'rywhere any time of the day
An everyday housewife...

Housewife such as a Profession!

2009-07-29T04:32:00.000-07:00

I'm not a perfect house keeper. My home is clean, but lived in. I do keep it very clean. I sweep, vacuum and dust almost every day, but it doesn't look like a museum either.

But when this depression set in, my house, though I still swept every day, began to look like I didn't care anymore. Even my husband was troubled by it. You know I didn't go on any medication, I simply got a call from my best friend, after my hubby, bless his heart, called her out of concern.

She laid it on the line, and told me everything about my life she could only dream of having. I have a wonderful husband who loves me with a passion, would never even think of cheating on me, has never abused me, and would do anything to make me happy. I have three wonderful children, though not perfect, they do love me and I them. I have a nice home, and the ability to stay at home and take care of my family.

Ladies, you have to put yourself first. If you don't take care of you, who will?

If you don't take care of you, then you can't be there to take care of the ones you love. I use to have a career, work out, stayed healthy and fit, had a social life, took time out for a bath and a book.

Today I have a schedule again. You may think well why, you're only a house wife. Because being a house wife is like any other profession. If you want it to work you need to run it like a well oiled machine. Which includes every element I need to feel like I am functioning at my best.

Perfect gift for him

2009-06-20T01:14:00.000-07:00

A sex toy could be a perfect gift for your boyfriend. But, here, appears a little problem.

First of all, you should make sure that your sexual partner isn’t a shy person and he accepts sex toys. Many men feel themselves insulted when they receive such gifts.

Secondly, if you have used sex toys together before, it means that he isn’t against these toys. If not, have discussions where you’ll find out if he likes them or not. Don’t be shy to ask such questions directly.

Another indication of his preferences regarding sex toys could be his behavior in bed. He will like sex toys if he likes experimenting in bed – new sexual positions, new kinds of sex or watch his reaction and make conclusions when you are discussing about sex toys.

You should know lots of information about his preferences if you want to select the perfect gift for him. This means that you can’t present a sex toy for a new sexual partner with whom you had sex for a few times.

Present him an anal sex toy if he likes to be touch by his butt hole. It could be a butt plug or anal beads or an anal stimulator. All these sex toys can be the perfect gift for him if you select correctly it.

Present him a penis sleeve, a realistic vagina or penis pump if he likes to masturbate a lot. These sex toys will help him to spice up the masturbation. Give him an anal sex toy if he prefers anal stimulation.

Does she like to masturbate in the bathroom? No problem. There are sex toys for such pleasure. They are called waterproof. You may buy him a vibrating Oro stimulator if he is oral sex lover.

You may present him erotic lingerie if Christmas Day is coming. This could be a perfect gift for such special day.

Why women imitate orgasm?

2009-05-30T02:36:00.000-07:00

How many times many women imitate orgasm in order not to upset their lovers?

And our men were always ego-strippers. Maybe, it’s time to think about yourself, not to have compassion to them.

Because, less people know that a woman could have 3 types of orgasm: clitoral, vaginal and blended.

Clitoral orgasm

It could be achieved by 2 methods:
- Your partner stimulates with his pubis or tongue;
- Or, the most well-know – masturbation;

Vaginal orgasm

It happens when the vagina is stimulated by the penis, finger or vibrator. This orgasm comes quicker if the vagina is stimulated faster and oftener. There is one more method, this is more slowly and deeply, but it’s longer.

Blended orgasm

It happens from affections, kisses and embraces without stimulation of genitals. But, this kind of orgasm doesn’t happen for all women. Usually, it lasts more rarely than one minute and it’s called solitary orgasm.

Many women are in error, accusing their partners in inability to get them pleasure. Otherwise, orgasm doesn’t happen from genitals, but from head. More exactly, many women aren’t able to listen for their own feelings, learn personal intimate reactions. Don’t be ashamed to masturbate.

And, if you have orgasm while masturbating, means that you can have it with a partner too.

Because, many women think about how they look during of sexual intercourse …
It’s necessary only to switch off your brain and get pleasure, enjoying from kisses and intimate affections.

If the woman clears out all unnecessary thoughts, she will be able to enjoy from the process itself and in result she will get that pleasure that she has dreamed about for a long period of time.

Barbie – her secret story

2009-05-05T04:04:00.000-07:00

Barbie, the glamorous blonde doll beloved by little girls around the world, is an icon of American femininity. She is also the most long-lived toy on the market, a fact that was celebrated throughout the world when she recently had her 40th birthday.

But in a tiny village in Bavaria there was no celebration, only bitterness and regret.

In the Hausser home, Rolf and Lily ignored the global celebrations and instead complained bitterly, as they have done so many times over the past four decades, about how badly they have been treated by history, or, to be more accurate, by Barbie’s secret story.

Like many starts, Barbie is not what she seems. Not only is she older than her official age, but Barbie is not real name, and what’s more, she isn’t even American, she’s German.

Barbie’s real name is in fact Lily. She is 45, not 40, and was born in a small town near Nuremberg. The secret story of the Barbie doll is about small-town naivety against big business determination.

Above all, it is a story of the tragedy of a bitter old man, a man who was been erased from Barbie’s history so completely that only a few people in the world know that he was the true creator of the Barbie doll.

But instead of making a fortune when she became a worldwide success, Rolf Hausser lost everything he owned.

What do you know about Barbie’s doll?

Why men don't iron?

2009-04-13T03:58:00.000-07:00

During the last fifty years psychologists have made us believe that differences between men and women are mainly the result of traditional social “conditioning” i.e the way we are brought up.

According to the theory women can be trained to do jobs that men traditionally do, and men can and should be in touch with his “feminine side”, more communicative and emotional, and should do the ironing.

According to recent scientific research, gender differences exist because men’s and women’s brains work completely differently and their biological differences mean that they can never think or behave in the same way.

Try this experiment: read a passage aloud from a book or magazine. At the same time, tap on the table with one finger, and try to maintain a constant speed. Do this first with your right hand and then with your left hand.

If you are a woman, you will be able to maintain a constant speed with either hand. Men however, when tapping with their left hand, will slow down.

This is one of the many experiments which proves that men’s brains are in compartments, with verbal abilities on the left side and spatial abilities on the right. For women, however, verbal and spatial problems are dealt with on both the left and right sides of the brain.

Are you a perfectionist?

2009-04-01T02:34:00.000-07:00

We live in an imperfect world, yet we are constantly given the message that everything should be perfect: our homes, our garden, our children and ourselves.

According to scientists, this obsession with perfection is one of the main causes of stress and depression nowadays – nobody ever thinks they are good enough.

But is doings things perfectly a positive thing? Some experts are not so sure.

I would like to write in my post about one example of “perfection”.
It would be about a perfect housewife.

So, she keeps her house in perfect order, thinks about everything her partner might want and makes an enormous effort to keep herself fit and fashionable.

She is always busy and is admired by everyone who knows her.

But, according to specialists in stress, the reality is that her partner is probably wishing he lived with somebody who was more relaxed and would let him put their feet up on the sofa in the evening.

What is the best age to get married?

2009-03-19T05:44:00.000-07:00

In my opinion, there is no perfect age for a couple to get married. However, some moments are better than others to undertake this serious commitment.

Firstly, many couples get married far too young when they still have not had time to enjoy their freedom as adults.

This is probably the main reason for the increasing divorce rate that every country is experiencing at the moment.

Secondly, a couple should get married for the right reasons. They shouldn’t get married just to escape from a difficult family situation.

Marrying for money is also not recommended. Although it is nice to have money, rich couples can be just as unhappy as poor ones.

In fact the only really good reason for getting married is when 2 people love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together.

In my opinion, people should get married when they feel they are ready. Age doesn’t matter if the time is right.

Do you want to live forever?

2009-03-04T03:30:00.000-08:00

Even if we have am extremely healthy diet and lifestyle, the human body is programmed to wear out at a maximum of about 120 years, and usually less.

We all have a biological clock inside us which determines the moment when our organs cease to function properly. This is because our cells have stopped renewing themselves and our body can no longer repair itself.

This is also the moment when we are more likely to begin to suffer from the diseases of old age. However, rapid advances in DNA research are beginning to throw light on the secrets of the ageing process.

By the end of this century we could literally have the power of life over death.
Although it has long been accepted that humans have a fixed lifespan, it is also a fact that certain other organisms, such as reptiles and amphibians, appear to live indefinitely.

The only reason we do not see 500-year-old alligators is because in the wild their lives are always in danger, from man, from pollution and from other animals. When they are kept in zoo they do not seem to age at all after they are fully grown. The same is true about some species of fish, which grow indefinitely and show no sings of ageing.

The existence of animals with no fixed lifespan seems to indicate that an age gene really does exist. It is this gene which scientists are searching for, which may retard or repair damage to the body caused by ageing.

Another new area of research involves the oxidation theory, which says that ageing is caused by the same process that makes iron rust. In controlled experiments, the lifespans of certain animals were shown to be lengthened with anti-oxidants; for example, the lifespan of mice can be increased by 30%.

Anti-oxidants are already being used in face creams and other cosmetics, and they are likely to plan an important part in keeping people physically young.

Perhaps the most immediate advance we are likely to see in the battle to halt the ageing process will be organ replacement. By the year 2020 it is likely that we will be replacing injured bones or even organs like livers and kidneys with one’s “grown” in laboratories.

By 2050 perhaps every organ in the body, except the brain, will have become commercially available. Recent experiments also show that it may one day be possible to “grow” new organs inside our body to replace worn-out ones, something which lizards and lizards and alligators already do.

Suddenly immortality seems within reach. We can begin to imagine a future where we are born, we grow to maturity, but we never grow old and die. But do we really want to live forever?

Creative photos

2009-02-19T07:34:00.000-08:00

How are you, my dears? Hope well. I’m well too and I have decided to write this new post.

What to write about? Everyday happen lots of events and it is hard for me to decide what deserves to be mentioned in my blog.
Recently I have found a school friend through Internet. You know sites like … and so on.

Well, I was surprised about her job. I have never known that such job exists – photographer. Much less I can combine this job with a woman.

But, she exists and she has this job. In fact she is a professional in her job. Her pictures are amazing and unusual.

I will add some of them in this post and you will appreciate their value.
As she told me, her profession was started as a hobby, then, it became her loaf of bread.

As she started as an amateur, her husband became the main character of her photos. She combines well the image of her husband and environment.

Look hear!! It seems that he wants to eat this poor insect. His mouth is strongly opened and the insect is in such a big hole, an infinite hole.

Look again!! It seems that the insect has no escape. Its life is on limit… Will he let this insect go or will he really eat it? Funny….

After this story, I can say only one thing – let your imagination work, don’t inhibit it.
One day… I see myself in a large building where an exposition of my photos takes place. Photos are everywhere, lots of people come to see them and I … I’m happy…
Ouch, I’m here with you, not somewhere… in a dream.

Well, I will finish my post with kisses and good whishes for you.

Good Bye!

How to show "I love you" to your lover?

2009-02-17T05:35:00.000-08:00

Sometimes, it is very difficult for me to say “I love you” to my husband.

Or rather, I want to break the rules and want to express my feelings in other ways.
So, can you imagine how to do it? Well. I have found the right method.

First of all, I think when to “say” it. I’m going to prepare either a romantic dinner and show how much I love him, or, organize a lazy Saturday morning in the bed. I will follow the first variant.

In fact, I want to be the first (from us) who will show my feelings in different way. I will do it unexpectedly for him. He will be very surprised.

O-la-la. I want to see his face in such minutes, in minutes when I will say in such way about my big love to him.

But, I have a fear. The fear if he will understand me correctly. In fact, I dream about the same declaration of love, but I’m not sure if he responses the same way as me.
Generally, I think that telling somebody “I love you” is a big courage and this person merits my admiration.

So, I’m ready to show my love not saying it. Why? As you have already understood, I told him about my love long time ago and not only once. Now, I want to do it differently, in a more romantic way.

What to do? How to show my love, respect and admirer?

I’m going to fill out the fridge with his favorite beer. He will appreciate my efforts.
Then, the romantic dinner will come. Tasty dishes, my kisses and then - the bed covered with roses petals. Isn’t this a simple way to show your love?

Readers, do you have anything to say? How do you say “I love you” to your lover, not using words?

I would like to see your ideas, comments and even suggestions on the bottom of this post.

How to organise the perfect Home Cocktail Party?

2009-02-11T04:43:00.000-08:00

Well, well, well.
The time is coming. What for? Haven’t I told you?

So, tonight I will have a cocktail party. The husband’s workmates are going to come to our house to have discussions and share cocktails.

It sounds good. I’m glad to host such kind of party. Let’s have fun my dears.
Actually, I’m a good hostess. I always take care of my guests, that’s why I prefer to prepare everything in advance.

So, what do I have? The house is clean. Moreover I have improvised a bar in the living room. The guests will serve each other with drinks. What kind of drink? We will serve cocktails, martinis and wine.

I have prepared also finger foods which suits perfectly for a cocktail party. I have arranged them on several platters and have put them near the bar.
The house is full of smell. The smell is different: from food to alcohol. But, there is no time for complaints.

Well, I will tell you about the cocktail. It will be trendy. It will consist of 4 basic liquors: vodka, rum, scotch and gin. I will add also orange juice, coke, sparkling water and soda. I haven’t forgotten about olives for martinis. They are in the fridge already, waiting their appearance.

Wait, wait… How about the ice? I have a lot. I expect that the cocktail party will be very hot.

I doubt that my guests will not be surprised.

I have a problem. I can’t find a calm music which will not disturb the conversation between the guests. I think about “Sade” but I’m not sure. As you know calm music contains tension, maybe I will choose a calm one.

I will phone my husband and I will consult him. It’s a good idea. He knows his workmates better than me.

Time runs fast. I’m hearing even the voices of first guests. They are outside the door. They are tooting the ringer.

I put off the apron and go to the door. I open it and my smile welcomes them. Sara and Ben. They are always punctual.

“Hi, my dears. Welcome to my house”

How do you start a new day?

2009-02-03T04:09:00.000-08:00

It was morning. An usual morning I though.

As usual I took a cup of coffee, put a make-up on my face, dressed fashionable clothes and then drove my red car “Opel Corsa”. The direction was to my work, to the center of the city.

As usual, the traffic was full. Lots of cars were in 2-3 queues. They were waiting for… What for?

Actually, I hate to stand in queue. I’d prefer a good morning: no queues, traffic jams, smiling people, happy people…

However, I came to the center and I remembered than I had to send a letter to my aunt.
So, I parked the car near the post office and was about to come in when a young man stopped me.

I was surprised by such courage, but then I understood why he did it.
Firstly, I will describe how he looked like. He wore a green jacket, green hate, and green trousers.

Then, my attention was focused on his bag. As you guess, it had the same color as the rest of clothes. The bag had also an inscription. And, I tried to read the text from it. “Jacobs”.
Bingo. I unlocked the secret. It was an advertising method for coffee promotion. The guy gave me a green envelope. I looked inside.

Guess, what was there? I was surprised myself.

So, I started to pull out from it. Firstly, I got off 2 one-time coffee’s bags, then 2-3 coffee’s grains, one brochure with some information about coffee Jacobs.

Nice. Very nice actually.

On his face was a big smile. He said: “For you my lady”. I couldn’t refuse the envelope and his smile too. I smiled in return.

I asked him “You have a promotion campaign?”

“Yes” – he replied.

The smile hasn’t gone from his face. I thanked him very much and then entered the post office.

I have had a great disposition for entire day. I shared the coffee even with my workmate. We drank the coffee and thought how great it is.

Moreover, we started to think how the coffee is made and how it comes on our table.

How do you start your day my readers? Do you have other methods than me? Tell us your secret, we will try it if deserves.

Have a good day and a “good coffee”!!!

What things could make women happy?

2009-01-28T06:10:00.000-08:00

“The little box of tea is empty. Could I throw it away?”

“No way! I want to keep this box. It is beautiful. I have a box – I said to my colleague (This colleague allows me to keep this box after tea is finished). I have a box – the same happy voice sounds around. It’s my voice. It’s a voice of happiness”

Somebody looks at me in a confused way. The phrase doesn’t remain without reply: “I didn’t know that an empty box can make a woman happy. Do you really enjoy it? You are crazy…”

Have you ever felt happiness because of an unimportant thing?

Maybe a smile, a touch of a lover, a cup of tea served in bed … in the morning or …

I do. I enjoy such things very much. They are more appreciated than other ones: luxurious car, red dress, mobile phone and so on.

So, what things could make us, women, happy?

Women, let’s talk about this interesting question. Can a gold jewelry – doesn’t matter what kind – earrings made of gold and Swarovski crystals or platinum rings encrusted with gemstones or other ones, make you happy?

Perhaps, it will be for the moment, but then your soul will be empty again.

Tenderness. Love. Nice words. Kind words. Affection. Do you want to be woken up in the morning with a kiss on your lips, hair or your neck?

Man, be ready. If you find the answer for this question you will discover the secret that will develop your relationship.

Just as a candle burns continuously because something takes care about it, so the love needs “firewood” to keep the relationship alive.

How to be a good wife?

2009-01-21T23:55:00.000-08:00

It’s very important to be a good wife if you wish to keep your family out of problems. And doesn’t matter what kind of problems: financial or psychological.
Follow some rules and you will be over the moon.

Be confident in yourself

If he is tired or comes late from work, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you anymore. If he is with you, it means that he wants to be. You will look sexy for him, even if it isn’t so.

Remember that treatment and readiness take part from the same list of characteristic “To be sexy”. Self-respect is good for marriage. Assure that your life is still fun and interesting.

Show your feelings and express your needs

Don’t wait till the moment when he will want or ask something. Take the initiative - ask him things that you need. If something is wrong - tell him and discuss about this. As you know, the problems can’t be solved by themselves.

After some time they become more difficult. Try to do it in time and you should do it calmly, clearly and directly. Some expressions work for you. “I feel bad” obliges him to ask “Why”.

Use this “I feel” often and you will see the difference.

Be realistic

As you know, there isn’t a perfect human from all over the world. Don’t expect that he is “Good”.

If both of you keep trying to have a good marriage, you will have it. Have realistic expectations. Only in this case, you will be able to attain them. Otherwise, you will feel yourself purposeless.

Accept him as he is. Don’t try to change him, because you will lose the beautiful parts which he is ready to offer you and you will never know about them.

Unarm yourself

Don’t be nag and fussy, because it can destroy a marriage. As long as the dishes are cleaned, don’t nag how much time it takes or how much your back aches.
Let him to do things as he likes.
Don’t force him to do them as you want, because it could make him angry. Concentrate your attention on important things, not small ones.

Don’t refuse him sex

Sex is an important part of life for majority men. So, offer him sex when he asks. Don’t refuse him telling him a well-known phrase “I feel seek”. Frequent refuses could say him that he isn’t good at this.

It can even change his feelings to rejection and even indignation. So, make sex as much time as he wants and he will return you this kindness in his way.

Have a fun sexual life

Discuss with him about your sexual life. What things you like more and which not. Don’t be afraid to experience something new with him. Explain him how this thing can change your sexual life.

Queen regnant

2009-01-13T01:17:00.000-08:00

I am a queen. Yes, a queen of my house. It isn’t a literally meaning but I can say surely: “I am a queen”.

Every day, when I wake up, I put the crown (I keep it on a pillow in the bedroom) on my head and start to give commands to my subordinates: my husband and children.

I can say that they are like slaves but I control every their movement. I dominate their existence and direct them to a right way in their life.

“The Queen loves kneeling to The King”

Why? I have a simple theory about this idiom. She likes kneeling to The King, knowing that in fact she is the person who reigns in the whole kingdom.

What do you know about domination? Do we like it or maybe we were born with such feature.

For me, domination is such as mask. You put it every day. But, when the sun goes down and you go to bed, taking out the crown from your head, you become again the person that you are in reality: sensitive who can be heart easily.

Don’t forget that a small bird called “Kindness” lives in our hearts.

Try to give presents, say nice words, respect your neighbors and donate things or money to necessitous.

Quotation about Money

2009-01-09T04:20:00.000-08:00

I am opposed to millionaires, but it would be dangerous to offer me the position

Mark Twain

1 thing

2009-01-09T04:07:00.000-08:00

There is 1 thing I want now:

“I want to be made of money” I know, know, they can’t make me happy…
Money... What do you think? Are they important in our life?

Generally, people have 2 opinions regarding this question. Most of them think that money is the most important thing in our life and we could not live without them.
Moreover, they think that everything can be bought, even the health.

Do you have the same opinion?

I wonder how people could have such ideas in their mind. There are lots of millionaires from all over the world but they die, are unhappy, cry, have problems and so on.

Money doesn’t make them happy. Maybe such as majority of people, money makes us happy just for a moment, but after several seconds your mood could change, because of … Everything could be, from a kiss to a look.

No matter how much money you can have, you can’t also save your life if you have an incurable disease.

Remember, millionaire could be unhappier than you, because they should take care about “their happiness”, which could be very difficult nowadays.

Another part of population thinks that money doesn’t have any importance, only “You” and “your soul” is the center of the universe. They could live in misery, eating not healthy food …

Don’t be childish… you can be very rich, using money for high goals, but you shouldn’t forget that first of all you are a human…

Make smart investments, start and run your own business and pay your taxes.

What is happiness?

2009-01-05T04:33:00.000-08:00

But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads?

Albert Camus

Do you have your own opinion?

Write about it.

Let the words which stay in your soul come out.

Write, write and write... This will help you to overcome the unhappiness..

The dark side of love

2009-01-05T04:15:00.000-08:00

Have you ever fallen in love? If yes, it seems that you know about white and dark side of love.

In love as in war, there is one winner.

First of all, you see only the white side of love. You are happy together, he/she is interesting. We have lots of things in common.

All things are pink for you. You think that the whole world is yours. Angels fly around you. You smile. You cry. Your mood changes every second. And all these things happen because of her/him.

You are captured. You can’t breathe without her/him. Every his/her delay makes you unhappy.

Both of you eat out of the same dish. Sleep in the same bed. Sing the same song.

You listen with an open mouth all the words which come out from this mouth.

You are captured again. Captured by his/her kiss, smile, hands…

Then, he/she starts delaying. You waited him/her, but he/she didn’t come.

Dark. Dark around you. You still love him/her, in spite of the fact that you aren’t friends anymore.

Your dreams are full of his/her image. You can’t even eat because he/she isn’t near you.

She/he doesn’t take the phone when you make calls. You saw him/her with another person. Depression.

A dark, very dark depression.

“She/he doesn’t love me anymore. My life doesn’t have any sense”. These phrases are typical for people who were disappointed in love.

How are you? How do you feel today? – Somebody try to return you back.

Back to a normal life. A pink life, where there is only happiness.

Family Quotes

2008-12-29T05:03:00.000-08:00

Families are like fudge - mostly sweet with a few nuts.

Author Unknown

Only in USA

2008-12-29T04:36:00.000-08:00

I always visit salons to make pedicures.

I am a modern woman who tries to look after herself carefully.

It’s very important to look beautiful, even for married women.

Do you agree with me?

Recently, I have visited my sister in Virginia and I decide to visit the salon there.

It left my mouth opened. The owner of the salon has invented a new idea that increases the number of visitors. I’m speaking about a gadget that they use in their salon.

They put tiny carp called “Doctor Fish” in warm water tank in the salon. The salon’s guests put their bare feet in this tank.

Then, the fish nibbles all the dead skin. In fact, this kind of fish has no tooth, that’s why they can’t injure you.

This procedure costs $35 while the traditional pedicure costs $50.

How do you think, such investment is profitable? Yes, it is.

According to the owner, the salon is visited by 5000 persons per week and the majority of them choose the unusual method.

Did I try it? Well, yes. How can I see such thing and not try it. By the way, I am a curious person.

I’ve even taken pictures and I’m going to place them in my blog.

Now, my feet are really delicate.

Would you try such pedicures?

Have you ever seen other methods of pedicures?

Family happinesses

2008-12-26T07:58:00.001-08:00

When you look at your life, the greatest happinesses are family happinesses.

Joyce Brothers

Where Are You Christmas?

2008-12-25T00:41:00.000-08:00

Where are you Christmas
Why can't I find you
Why have you gone away
Where is the laughter
You used to bring me
Why can't I hear music play

My world is changing
I'm rearranging
Does that mean Christmas changes too

Where are you Christmas
Do you remember
The one you used to know
I'm not the same one
See what the time's done
Is that why you have let me go

Christmas is here everywhere, oh
Christmas is here if you care, oh

If there is love in your heart and your mind
You will feel like Christmas all the time

I feel you Christmas
I know I've found you
You never fade away
The joy of Christmas
Stays here in silence
Fills each and every heart with love

Where are you Christmas
Fills your heart with love.

Good morning, my dear!

2008-12-23T06:33:00.000-08:00

It’s 8.00 o’clock in the morning. I woke up because of a dream. An unusual dream...

Do you want me to tell you what was the dream?

Well, it seems that I stay in bed and what about the door? The door is opened slightly.

Who is here? - I ask loudly. Hello, is anybody here?

I hear a voice: “You belong to me”, “I belong to you” … silence …

Then, he finds me… I hear him standing up from the armchair. He calls me and I follow his voice.

His voice… sounds so real and attractive. I can’t refuse him anything.

Thoughts, thoughts – they come in and go away from my mind. Sometimes, the idea appears that this person is an intruder, but who cares?

My heart is beating. I can’t feel my left hand, but we embrace each other.

We don’t speak, but we start kissing. Kissing a lot. He is good at this. Maybe he is good at other things as well.

Then, he directs me to the bed. He pushes me slightly on it and then comes himself.

Where are my clothes? I don’t know where they are. I’m naked. Wait. I see them. They are scattered all over the room.

Then…I will not write what happened next, because it makes me blush.

I will tell only that he wanted to “eat” me the whole day, but, unfortunately, both didn't have much time.

So, we wake up. I wake up also, I mean from my dream.

“Good morning” – my husband said. What a shame? My husband is next to me, but I dream of another man. Ohhh.

My husband gloats me for a long period of time and then says “You are so beautiful”.

He kisses me gently and leads out of the room, inviting me to the dinner.

He is so nice!

Next time, I will try to have a dream with my husband, not with a stranger.

Who knows?!....

Toothbrush Love

2008-12-23T01:19:00.000-08:00

Recently, I have found an interesting photo while surfing in Internet.

Incredible, but even Toothbrushes make love.

By the way, have you ever tried such sexual positions?

I am just curious!!!

Elizabeth Arden

2008-12-20T02:20:00.000-08:00

Have you ever heard this name? Certainly!

I think that every woman dreams to be like this woman.

Would you like to know more about this woman? Ok. I will try to write some useful information about her and how she started her business.

Elizabeth Arden was a Canadian business woman, the founder of Cosmetic Empire in USA. She came in New-Work in 1908, studied cosmetic art for 2 years and than borrowed money, opened own beauty salon.

Nowadays, it would be strange if you won’t use mascara and shadow for makeup. Arden promoted them and made them popular among women.

Moreover, she enlarged the spectrum of colours. She promoted the idea that make up of the woman should go together with her clothes, but not with hair colour.

So, I will describe some of her perfumes

5th Avenue Perfume

This perfume is destined for young, chic and fashionable ladies. 5th Avenue – is the heart of one of the most amazing city of the world.

After 5 o’clock in the evening, when the twilight comes with soft steps and an agreeable music is sounds from everywhere, she starts to live with anticipation. Anticipation of wind-up parties, romantic dates and stormy night.

Namely these feelings were embodied in 5th Avenue after Five Aroma. The creator of composition Olivier Gillotin calls this perfume “sensual”.

Green Tea Perfume

Green Tea perfume is created on the green tea aroma. It is the most brilliant representative of tea tendency and even its founder. It is one of the first aromas with tea notes.

Coolness, clearness and energy – these are 3 components of this perfume. In this fresh, transparent perfume all notes are in so harmonious interweave, that illusion of submersion in cool water, flavored with green tea leaflets is created.

There is no much bitterness this perfume and it is fetched out with other ingredients which make the perfume unobtrusive and tender.

Why socks disappear?

2008-12-13T01:24:00.000-08:00

One of my new pair of socks disappeared.

I lose socks. My husband loses socks. I lose husband’s sock, my husband loses my socks.

The mystery is... the remaining sock is always the left one.
Why socks disappear and where are they hiding all the time?

Well, I don’t know where they are living right after disappearance, but I can make some theories.

From time to time our mutual socks are washed and sorted. They end up with mating with a new colleague; I mean with a different kind of sock.

Some socks have a different life, they aren’t sorted or washed. They live a filthy life for a long period of time until their owner will decide to draw attention to them.
Such a life makes them annoyed and they run away from their owner.

Do you believe in such a theory? Maybe yes, maybe not.

Another theory is the following – socks are eaten by washing machines. Perhaps, washing machines like not only energy but also socks. Or maybe, socks for machines are like children for people. They collect them in their giant engines and then educate them.

Do you know another theory, my visitor? I would like to hear those theories you know.

Recently, I've read one more theory regarding socks. According to scientists, there is one special place in every house where lost things live, including socks.

Did you know about this place? No, indeed.

I have a big house. I know every place in here. But, I have never found such a place into my house.

Maybe, this place is kept away from our eyes and only selected people are able to see it.

However, I can’t find the second sock. I should buy another pair.

This time I will choose a funnier pair of socks. Believe me!

Katy Perry - I kissed a girl

2008-12-09T00:51:00.000-08:00

My husband loves the song” “I kissed a girl”. As you know, this song is sung by Katy Perry. I nice girl I could say.

In fact, my husband has no idea what this song really means.

I do.

“This was never the way I planned
Not my intention
I got so brave, drink in hand
Lost my discretion”

The title of the song is very exciting. “I kissed a girl” means that this girl is lesbian, that girl is lesbian and both of them like each other.

There are many cases, when the lesbian life starts not with intention, but accidentally. It starts when the person is not sober, I mean person that drunk some alcohol. In such moments, unusual things happen: somebody kisses a girl, another one gambles, someone else kills people.

Everybody likes to do something, but everybody does it in his way.

Generally, when a person is drunk he/she can’t understand what is going on around her/him. All things are like in a dream, but when the alcohol drops out of organism, he/she realizes what was done, but sometime it is too late.

Katy Perry, as other persons, after kissing a girl, realizes what she did and she sings about this in her song.

“It's not what, I'm used to
Just wanna try you on
I'm curious for you
Caught my attention”

In fact, we do things because of curiosity. The curiosity makes the humanity to develop. That’s why we were developed from monkey and became what we are today.

Katy Perry was very curious too and she wants to kiss the girl only because this process intrigues her. She wants to understand how it is. I think that every girl kisses another girl in her life, isn’t it?

“I kissed a girl and I liked it
The taste of her cherry chap stick
I kissed a girl just to try it
I hope my boyfriend don't mind it
It felt so wrong
It felt so right
Don't mean I'm in love tonight
I kissed a girl and I liked it
I liked it”

Such as smoking, either you like it from the first time or dislike for entire.

Katy Perry likes the kissing and I think that she will do it again. Maybe, that girl (who she kisses) has beautiful lips, that is why the kiss was amazing and she likes her.

Moreover, Katy Perry is worried about her boyfriend (yes, she has a boyfriend) and hope that he will not despise her. She wonders how she could do it but after sometime she is happy that she did it.

”No, I don't even know your name

It doesn't matter, You're my experimental game

Just human nature, It's not what,

Good girls do Not how they should behave

My head gets so confused Hard to obey”

I think that it doesn’t matter which name the person has if you like it. The kissed girl is only an experiment for Katy Perry. Maybe she only wants to see how it is and after she will remain that heterosexual as she was.

The singer says that her head got confused. My head can also be in confusion after lots of alcohol. In fact, there is the process after drinking. Your head is like a bomb, you have huskiness. Don’t worry! The problem could be solved with marinated cucumbers. Try and you will see how good will be.

”Us girls we are so magical

Soft skin, red lips, so kissable

Hard to resist so touchable

Too good to deny it

Ain't no big deal, it's innocent”

As I said, you like or not something after the first experience. Katy Perry likes, because in her song, she describes other parts of the girl’s body: soft body, red lips.

She thinks that kissing and touching is innocent, but after this process and taking into consideration the girl is irresistible, she couldn’t stop….

So, the main purpose of this song is clear for me. How about you? What do you think about this song? Maybe, you have another interpretation?

I’m waiting for your comments….

Their love story was her greatest inspiration

2008-12-03T07:48:00.000-08:00

Dear Friends,

I can’t tell you how happy I am that you have the opportunity to read my thoughts in this blog.

Because if you are a housewife, you can read some interesting thoughts (I think that we have the same), this blog will be a tremendous find for you.
Just like you, I’ve been interested in improving wife’s abilities.

But now, I will not write about something related to housewife’s abilities, I will write about a well-known author Jane Austin. I think that all housewives like to watch TV and read books related to love stories.

But before I get into details, I’d like to share a pretty amazing story about her.
I am sure that everybody have read books or watched films of this author. All her stories finished with marriage and happy end. The most popular story written by her is: “Pride and prejudice”.

This film was watched in 18 countries by millions viewers.
Could you believe that? In fact, Jane Austin doesn’t describe the love in her books.

Vice versa, she satirizes love, because in that time, it was impossible to get married without money.

She describes relation of money and love, the corrupted society of that time.

I have seen only the films related to her books, but recently I saw a film about her biography. I was surprised, because if the author writes stories with happy ends, it means that her life should have also a happy end.

Generally, the authors wrote in their poems, stories the thoughts which are in their minds, but here I had a dilemma.
How could she write about happy ends if her life was a disaster?

Incredible, perhaps she was a strong person, if she could pass this condition. I doubt that she was a dreamer and all her life dreamed about a happy life.
Do you know that she has never been married?

In fact, she had 3 loves in her life, but all of them were unhappy. Her first love was a young law student Lefroy – they loved each other but they couldn’t marry because they haven had enough money to live together.

The second love she met in Devon, but after some time that young man died suddenly, and the last one wasn’t as intelligent as she expected and she refused him.

Oh, how unhappy her life was. I’m speechless. I even cried when I sow the film and then read the book. All her life was in tortures – to find a house and money for living.

The most interesting was the fact that she wasn’t popular as author when she was alive. All her books (she wrote 6 love stories) became popular after her death.
So, it means that she hasn’t earned much money and she was poor.

I have one question to you, reader. Imagine, you live in the 16-17 sec. and you are a poor person. How do you pass this situation? Maybe, you have some suggestions for how this young lady, I mean Jane Austin, could had a better life with her talent.

Or maybe you think that all creative persons have such life and they aren’t interested in money, prosperity….

Was she a genius?

My advice, read her book, read her biography and then try to understand what was there in her soul and mind.

Which words do you hate at the moment?

2008-11-26T00:40:00.000-08:00

Yesterday, my friend told me that she hates some words. I asked her which ones?

She replied me:

“Divorce”
“love”
“sexy body”
“lover”
“bedroom”

I understand her, she has divorced recently. She has a difficult life period and I try to help her.

What about you? Which words do you hate and why?

The full story of my fridge

2008-11-26T00:25:00.000-08:00

I’m back.

I was occupied a little that’s why I haven’t written any posts.

I decided to make some changes in the house, especially in the kitchen.

Honestly speaking, I don’t like my old fridge at all. It was a wedding present from my mother-in-low. She didn’t ask which kind of fridge we like and she bought it herself.

As you guess, the fridge isn’t practical and stylish. I hate it.

When the question of changes came up, I was the first one who made suggestions. Guess, which ones?

The first thing which I recommended to be changed was the fridge of course.

The suggestion was approved and we started to visit shops to buy one.

Next days were attritional. Lots of shops, many beautiful fridges and incredible… I didn’t know what to choose.

“I don’t want to buy anything at all” – I said at the end. Can you believe that?

We have money, we want to change the old appliance and when we are ready to buy it – it’s very difficult to do it.

How interesting. It makes me listening to all shop assistants and the information takes me without words.

Haven’t you heard about these?

- The fridges are provided with special super cooling air circulation that ensures better food preservation and a constant and even temperature.

- The cool temperature of fridges slows the growth of most harmful microbes. Moreover, it doesn’t change the characteristics of the food.

Would you like to have such fridge in your house? Indeed.

After some days of thinking, we decided. We will buy a fashionable and practically one.

It has 6 easy-clean glass shelves (I thought of myself), 3 adjustable full-width door shelves, covered dairy compartment, extra large pull-out salad and vegetable drawers.

The frost-free freezer section has 4 removable transparent drawers for easy loading and unloading (I thought again of myself).

Quick-freeze function ensures any freshly-added food is frozen quickly to keep its quality. It is rated ‘A’ for energy consumption.

Finally, I bought it. Can you believe? The kitchen interior changed after the fridge was placed there.

I liked the changes. Perhaps I will continue with the bedroom….

Have you ever seen such pillows?

2008-11-19T08:06:00.000-08:00

Incredible! How they could make such beautiful pillows?

Imagine, you sleep on such pillow and all your thoughts are about mobile for example.

I would like to buy these pillow, all of them.

Have you seen other designed pillows? Show me, please.

Maybe we will make a competition some day.

Why we need to buy housewife costumes?

2008-11-18T05:03:00.000-08:00

Today is a special day. I am going to have guests.

As you know, it’s a long day for cooking, cleaning, dusting and so on. Finally, I must look sexy to amaze my guests.

How it could be? Various ideas come into my head. I am planning all my actions: which flowers will stay on the table, what kind of wine my guests will serve …

Lots, lots and lots of things I have to do and I have just a little problem. I don’t know what to wear to feel practically, because I will serve my guests and in the same time I should look sexy.

What to do? Come to me, ideas. I will use you. Oh, but I don’t have time for doing them.
Maybe, I should buy a housewife costume via Internet. It’s easy and I will have free time for another work.

Oh, it’s not easy to be a housewife or a stay at home mom. We spend much time for cooking, cleaning and so on and don’t attract attention to our appearance.

So, I will order a housewife costume via Internet. I decided to wear a retro costume. It will make me a true and correct housewife. Sounds funny! I will see how I look in such retro housewife costume after trying it on.

I have already prepared all cookies, wine, sandwiches and aperitif.

I’m waiting for my guests. There isn’t any noise in the house. It’s like the silence before the storm. All appliances from the house seem to be stopped. The silence is even in the kitchen where all gadgets worked powerfully recently.

But now, I am sitting on the armchair and wait for… I don’t know what I am waiting for but … The door’s bell sounds. Oh, my housewife costume comes.

I need only 2 minutes to put it on and look in the mirror. So beautiful and incredible. I think that I will amaze my guests not only with my food but also with my dress.

I look like a retro housewife who uses modern machines for cooking.
How clothes may change appearance of a person? I look like the Snow Maiden: beautiful, fashionable and kind.

I will order for the next time a sexy housewife costume to surprise my husband only. I imagine how he will gaze me….

How to be a good housewife?

2008-11-12T07:47:00.000-08:00

I remember when I was a child, everyday I dreamed about adult life. I mean, about a job, to have personal money, not to depend on your parents and so on. I think that all of us had the same wishes.

What irony: now, when I have all these things, I want to be that little girl, without any worries and habitual problems.

Very often, my friends and I played games. The most favorite game was the game when you acted the part of housewives. We met our “virtual” husbands, gave them food, had some discussions and then, as it’s normal, we had children.

Have you had such games? I think that every girl have played this game while boys were playing with their little cars and were fighting with so called “not real rivals”.

Now, the things are just a little different. Most often, the husband works all day in order to support financially the family and the wife takes non-financial responsibilities.

Housewives see to the house, prepare food and take care of children (if they are).

Apparently, this life looks like a boring one, but in fact, everybody has lots of works and there isn’t time for thinking about this.

In order to be a good housewife, I will write some rules. Look here:

- Discuss with your husband about the expectations. Ask him: “What are your expectations from me as a housewife?” and vice versa tell him what you expect from him, as a husband. Don’t be afraid to discuss about responsibilities of both of you.

- Take a break. Majority of housewives think that if their status is “housewife” they should look after the house, children, cook and clean twenty four hours a day. However, if they follow such program, after some time they will get tired. It means that they will not be able to manage the house and the whole nine yards. If you feel the same, it’s time to “recharge the batteries”. Take a pause: visit a spa, do exercises, visit a fitness, go out with your best friends, talk with them about your feelings, listen their advice … Permit him to make some house works: take care of children, preparing some foods and only in this case he will respect you, because he will see how hard could be this work, maybe harder than his office work. I mean physically work.

- Be ready to listen to your husband. Generally, the working men could be divided in 2 parts: some of them, after a hard working day, prefer to sit in front of TV or read a newspaper before talking with you about his daily work, others – start to talk just after the house’s door opens. In both cases you should listen to them and support them.

- Prepare food at home. One of the most appreciate thing when we arrive home is the food which can be prepared in a delicious way. Don’t buy fast-food, buy meal and vegetables from the bazaar and prepare a delicious food at home. Your husband will appreciate that.

- Take care of yourself. I know how compressed timetable housewives have. But, you should find time to take care of yourself, because a delicious food with an ugly waitress – isn’t pleasant for anybody. Amaze him with fashionable clothes and stylish make-up. Flirt with him as much as you can. Play some games, for example when you serve him. In fact, the man likes that.

Interesting stories about cats

2008-11-10T23:19:00.001-08:00

I have found a funny photo via Internet.

The cat is so cute, isn’t?

In fact, I like cats. I’ve always had a cat when I lived with my parents and now, when I have a family.

As you know, cats make us feel relaxed and they make themselves comfortable on that “territory” of our body which needs affection and love the most.

Perhaps they feel a negative energy and as they are our friends they want to help us. They can’t speak, so they try to attract our attention through other ways: they emit sounds, fawn upon our legs and do many other things that make us happy.

I’m sure that after such a behavior you will not be able to refuse them. I mean to pat their back or add extra ounces to their daily food.

By the way, do you know that after some time of living together, the animals look the same as their owners? It’s a very interesting fact and I support it.
I saw many relationships between owners and their pets … And do you know which thing amazed me?

They were alike, not only physically but also they had the same character.
My neighbor had a small cat with downy hair. Its eyes reflected only kindness. It was always waiting for guests at the entry of the house…

It was quite hospitable and curious to meet people. It looked like “saying” “welcome” or “have a good day” in its language.

Guess, was the owner like its adorable kitten? Indeed. This old tiny woman has goodness without limits. She always asks us “How do you do?” She’s always waiting for us to visit her and prepare delicious cake with tea for this purpose.

However, in spite of the fact that health care providers claim in unison that “cats are dirty” I love to take them into my hands.
I even kiss them. Don’t blame me!

They are like human beings that can’t speak. They have feelings and they are able to love or hate.

One fine day I was given the chance to see a truly furious cat. Oh yes! It was for the first and last time in my life.

Some years ago a friend of mine has visited me. She decided to toy with my little quadruped buddy fretting it very, very much by imitating it.

My lovely cat wasn’t in a good mood that sunny day. It got up in 2 paws and – fantastic!- a real Jackie Chan! It attacked my friend in the literal sense of the word.

I was shocked, too. Something cold “penetrated” my heart. I was frightened. It was my cat, but in a jiffy I understood that I don’t know it at all.

This story finished with a happy end, I mean that my cat calmed down after some minutes. But, I couldn’t relax even after several weeks.

My cat… O my God! It was able to hurt somebody!!? What should I do in such a case?
For that time, I made a decision. I sent my cat in the village, to my parents.

Generally, I think that cats need an open area, a kind of “al-fresco” in order to play, catch mice and feel themselves - animals.

Do you remember your classmates?

2008-11-07T07:37:00.000-08:00

It was like in a fairy tale. Your secret admirer who stood in the last school desk. Your best girl friend who helped you in the most difficult situations.

It was really, really nice. Lots of such recollections are in our head, they don’t leave us and time to time they come back in our memory.

So, why I’m writing this? I want to say that 10 years passed after I finished the school. One of my ex-colleagues, Eric, called me last week and said that we should organize a meeting to celebrate it.

In that minute, many scenes of our school together passed in front of my eyes. How I could forget about this important event?

I turned red but my ex-colleague hasn’t seen me, it was a discussion by phone.

O, la, la. Who discovered the telephone? It was a genius.

However, we chose a beautiful and silent place where we could met each others and to have long and nice discussions.

The time was over. All my worries remained at home and I went to the meeting.

The place was really nice. Incredible, but here you may forget about all your problems, necessities. You are together with the nature only.

Ah, how much happiness could be in my heart!

I sow all my ex-colleagues. Incredible, but they haven’t changed much. Their faces remained the same; I read only some maturity in their eyes.

By the way, there was a funny situation. Somebody asked me: “Do you remember me?”

How I could forget such smile, lips and voice. It was he, it was my unforgettable love. It’s still in my mind and time to time appears in my night’s dreams.

Of course, we discussed a lot: about our new love, new life’s goals and how we missed each other. Don’t think that we gave ourselves up to passion. We just only flirted a little.

Majority of ex-colleagues have already a family, even children. All of them work, have the same habitual problems as me.

We discussed hours and hours on end. Everybody spoke, everybody listened and everybody said fine words.

We spoke as adults, but sometime we recollected how we studied together and everybody had a smile on his face.

We though about that, smiling, because we were so dumb at that time.

And about the place… The place was incredible. The rustic design made me speechless.

The view was magnificent. I decided to go to that place next holiday.

So, I saw my ex-colleagues. The time spent with them was the shortest.

And, some bliss and calmness came into my heart. I’m happy.

Handbags for housewives

2008-11-05T02:17:00.000-08:00

Today I decided to "spoil" my adorable soul! I was looking for some interesting stuffs for women.. For those ladies who love themselves and would eagerly present their soul with a gift...

It isn’t a secret for anybody that I love handbags. And I want one.

I have heard a lot of advice when it comes to choosing a bag. Now I want to find a bag that will perfectly fit my preferences. Recently, I've bought a fashionable dress designed by Gucci.

I’ve been thinking about buying a nice leather handbag.
So, first I've googled for "handbag for housewife".

I was delighted to find so many beautiful bags!

I started scrolling down, looking through the google’s results. There were lots of sites which offered beautiful handbags for everyone, from simple models to fashionable.

I could arrange them by price, category, materials which they are made of and so on. In such a way, my work is easier. I call this process – work. Funny, isn't it?!

The first bag which attracted my attention was the "Paris Handbag" (it’s in the photo). It comes in 2 colors: white and black.

Imagine that you walk along the streets holding this handbag, wearing a fashionable dress which has the same color as your handbag. The shoes have the same color, too.

It sounds good and appetizing. It’s a joke. I can’t eat my clothes even though I wish that.

I will tell you a secret. I like black color that’s why I prefer namely this kind of handbag.
It has the right size. I could put inside lots of things like: food, journals, wallet and many other objects.

While looking for something else, I remained wowed for some moments at all. I felt in love with “Spy Bag”. Sooooooooo lovely!

I love this handbag. I’m going to include it in the list for Santa…

How to choose the right perfume?

2008-10-31T08:05:00.000-07:00

Today, I would like to share my own experience regarding perfumes and the way I use to select one.
So, I pleasantly invite you to participate in choosing a perfume for me.

Choosing a perfume for yourself, in fact, it's quite a delicate matter. I could say a problem.

When you stay in front of those hundreds of beautifully colored perfumes' boxes and attentively glance at them... What's in your mind? I guess you automatically pose such questions: how should the perfume smell? What color should it be? Will people appreciate the smell of your newbie or not?

In fact, the process of selecting a perfume for myself is funny and interesting but at the same time this is a responsible pastime. According to some data, if you incorrectly choose an aroma this may lead to depression, ill mood and even headache. The perfume is your second skin and the air you breathe. When owning a perfume that doesn't belong to you, your personality and self-assertion is wounded.

I have a dilemma. Before I went shopping I thought that it will be a simple procedure, but now I realize that I can’t solve this problem.

So, should that mean? It means that now I am going to smell all the perfumes displayed on the shelf and I will select only the perfumes which make me happy.

In spite of the facts that I read lots of information about how to select the right perfume I will follow my intuition only.

Thus, equipped with reliable information I am going to test them all. I’m right here, in the shop. I glance at these perfumes... Hold on! I shouldn’t be in a hurry. Why not? As simple as ABC! Because….Because after smelling different perfumes, I will not be able to differentiate the smell that perfectly meets my tastes and preferences.

What should I do in this case? Don’t worry!! I’m going to ask a piece of advice from the shop’s consultant. Oh, it’s a big relief. First of all, she gives me 3-4 perfumes for smelling. Naturally, she applies the perfume’s aroma on the various parts of my body. You should savor the scents and decide which one fits better for you and raises your spirit.

You'd better spread the perfume on your wrist. The consultant recommended me to not spread the perfume on my hair and neck. The aromas will be confused and I will not be able to value the new flavor.

Here is some other advice you should take into account:

- Aromas react differently to temperature' variation, the level of air moisture. In a wet, hot climate – aromas are propagated quickly while “strong” aromas become more intense. In a dry and cold climate aromas “muffle”;

- The skin of every person has its specific smell. It depends not only on your skin’s fat but also on what food the person eats, in which emotional state he/she is, in what ecologic and social conditions he/she lives. Fat food “provide” your skin with a more intense smell;

Finally, I choose the perfume namely for me. It has a soft and fresh smell. It presents me with a fantastic mood and I feel extraordinary.

Housewife – this is also a career!

2008-10-23T04:37:00.000-07:00

I’ve met women who being asked “what is your job?” dropped their eyes down modestly and pronounced quietly “Housewife”.

I am not ashamed of my status, inversely; I’m satisfied with my position. Housewife position gives me big advantages in front of women who work outside their house. So, let’s talk openly about housewives.

Career in the family

I will start with the idea that honorable title “housewife” doesn’t fit everyone. I doubt that the women who dream about bright career will like to stay at home.

Though, the majority of women don’t understand that housewives could make also a successful career in their family.

Here, they could find acceptance, love and respect. Moreover, as opposite to business-lady, the housewife can control her time freely. I call all my colleagues to make useful this time.

Every housewife, as any other woman, has her dreams and desires. Generally, the woman forgets about herself because she is always worked up with worries and family needs. At this rate, in my opinion, it’s time to take out to the surface your own “I” and remember that it has also a right for existence.

The next step to the housewife’s career becomes the understanding of the thing that she holds a responsible post – householder. It’s disputable the question, of course, about “who is the owner of the house”.

Practically, namely housewife becomes the leader and directs the family’s life. I assure you that the housewife could make a successful career, “not leaving the house”.

By definition the family is a community where people live under one roof and keep the house together. Unfortunately, there isn’t love and respect in the family all the time, that’s why I make such a definition.

If the husband bears responsibility for the material condition of the family, the rest of things are in the hand of the housewife.

The most expensive sex accessories

2008-10-16T07:44:00.000-07:00

Yeah!

I’m so bored and lazy today! What to do?
I decide to read a magazine.

Wow! “The most expensive sex accessories!”... Hmm, that seems to be an interesting topic. I stumble across this funny article adorned with some inviting pics...

Generally, I’m not a person who buys expensive products However, if they deserve this exuberant price I could buy them with pleasure.

According to sexologists, the extinction of passion is a serious problem among all life’s problems. Every day couples face such a problem. Many of them can’t overcome it and that’s why so many divorces happen.

However, people always try to learn and test something new. I’m among this kind of persons.

What did I see so arousing and expensive?

Here are things for women who want to seduce their lovers and husbands.

Have you guessed yet? Not yet?

I zero in on an elegant short-stringer with strip made of natural pearl. It costs around $200. Such short makes any female body attractive.

I want this thing and I want it immediately.

How do you thing, does this accessory deserve this price?

Mmmm, I don’t know, I’m in a dilemma. I want it so much! But I really don’t know if my husband will appreciate it. By the way, here I see other fashionable products dedicated to men. There is an intimate ring with precious stones. I do imagine my lover wearing this luxury thing. Exciting.

Thereby, Swarovski crystals are combined with various masks, corsets, cuffs and collars. These items cost about $5000. I’m not surprised anymore.

They look like gags and decorations for Halloween. Kidding. All they play an important role in avoiding monotony of a family life. After several years lived together couple’s life becomes boring. Admit it!

Imbued with fresh information, I go shopping. I can’t control myself. I decide to buy sexy lingerie for both of us (I never forget about my husband).

I was shocked. In spite of high prices for the offered items, the store is crowded. Moreover, the majority of customers are women. I quickly rushed into the intimate lingerie boutique to be convinced that the things I've targeted are on the shelf. They are. Uh. What a fortune I have today.

In the end, I want to remind you that people want to have things that aren't in their house. And if you man used to see a tender and obedient lady nearby, it’s a high time to make some changes.

I mean a small surprise. For example, how about the idea of appearing in the likeness of a luxurious Fury with diabolical horns made of semiprecious stones? Sounds tantalizing, nope?

My delicious coffee

2008-10-10T01:10:00.000-07:00

Every morning I drink my delicious coffee.

Mmmm....so tasty.

I would like to recommend it for every housewives.

6 servings (serving size: 1/2 cup coffee mixture and 1 teaspoon whipped topping)

Ingredients

* 6 tablespoons Frangelico (hazelnut-flavored liqueur)
* 3 cups hot strong brewed coffee
* 2 tablespoons frozen reduced-calorie whipped topping, thawed
* Ground cinnamon (optional)

Preparation

Place liqueur in a microwave-safe bowl; microwave at HIGH 10 seconds or until warm. Add warm liqueur to coffee.

Pour about 1/2 cup coffee mixture into each of 6 cups; top each serving with 1 teaspoon whipped topping, and sprinkle with cinnamon, if desired.

Is this real or only a scenario of Hardy Tomas?

2008-10-09T06:44:00.000-07:00

I’m reading the book of Hardy Tomas. It is called “The Mayor of Casterbridge”. It is the drama of an English family.

In my opinion, up to this moment the scenario is an ordinary one. But after 2 hours of reading I have changed my mind. What a drag! - The husband has sold his wife and daughter during an auction.

They have been bought by a sailor. Thus, they left for Canada with this sailor. By the way, her husband was drunk when he sold his wife and child.

Oh! Is too late; I close the book and go to bed ….

I can’t sleep. My thoughts are imbued with curiosity. I still think of her sufferings. What else to say? - Some men proved to be betrayers. While thinking, thinking and thinking ….

I feel asleep. I saw a dream, a story with a happy end like in most fairy tales related by my adorable grandma many years ago.

Morning

Tic-Tac. It’s 7 o’clock. The sun’s rays are joyfully playing right on the cover of my book.

I missed it. I don’t delay to open it up and start my exciting reading.

To my surprise, the events turned into another way. I was shocked when I found out that the sailor has been lost in the sea.

The woman’s daughter (from her first husband) died. And after 18 years this poor woman returned to her first husband. Yes, remember! The very traitor!

So, what happened with her first husband? After drunken stupor, he realized what did he do, but it was too late. He kicked drinking at all and in a few years he became the mayor of the Casterbridge and grew rich.

Believe it or not she returned to her first husband and he accepted her.

Moreover, she has convinced him that her daughter Marry-Jane is his. In fact, this girl was the sailor’s daughter. He didn’t know that his natural daughter died immediately after they have been sold to the sailor.

By the time, people from the village in which he was the mayor have heard about his deeds and lost their respect for him.

Step by step he lost his money and he became penniless. Marry-Jane got married with his rival and his son-in-low became the new mayor. The husband started to drink again. All his life was ruined after so many years of success. I am surprised by such an end.

Saturday

All Saturdays, I and my friends use to go out for a drink. As usual, we discuss about all things which happened during the whole week.

So, I’ve related about the read book and its dramatic final. One of my friends has claimed that the wife is stupid and pitiable: “How could she tolerate such life”. The other one has stated: “How could she return to him after his awful deeds?”

All my friends discuss about this book. Finally, we all drew a conclusion “It’s very important to carefully choose the budding husband. Because this is for whole life”.

What about you? What do you think about that? Do you have the same life or maybe yours is better?

Can you believe this?

2008-10-06T05:12:00.000-07:00

Hi again

I have just discussed with one of my friends via Internet.

She is on holiday.

She told me that she discovered an interesting tree.

She sent me the photo. I was surprised, because I have never seen such tree.

It reminds me one "thing" with which I play every night.

Wow, the tree has so many .....

About a crazy day

2008-10-06T04:32:00.000-07:00

I’m nervous. What happened? – You will ask me.

So, yesterday, I was very embarrassed. I decided to go shopping. After I visited some shops, I went out on the street.

2 handsome and young guys started to whistle me. It was a long whistle. I can’t support this more than 1 minute.

After some time, I understood that they will not stop. And, they haven’t stopped even when I turned my head.

This thing drove me crazy. I raised one hand and showed then one finger. You know which finger it was. They started to laugh. I turned my back and continued my way.

When I came home, I sat down in the armchair. I started to think about the accident.

It was nicely that I attracted attention of those young chaps. It means that I’m still young looking.

At the other hand, I’m a married woman and not a “waser” who is whistled on the street.

Maybe, I will talk about adultery in my next post. Now, I’m tired and want to go sleep. Good day.

How to avoid a family crisis?

2008-10-04T03:27:00.000-07:00

Well, well, well. I’m back to continue my post.

Did you miss me? I suppose - yes. I missed you so much all that time I waited edgily.
So, how are you today? I address to housewives – which kind of cooking have you prepare today? I have made a tasty cake – can I feast you?

If you don’t want I will continue with the story about my friend.
As you know, there are lots of different prescriptions for each holiday.

Unfortunately, there are no prescriptions for young couples.
Do you remember how you loved each other in a romantic atmosphere with candles, champagnes and marine products mini-dinners?
Yes, it was so romantic, so excited and appetizingly (not only the dinner but also the sexual partner).

Such prescription can’t be practice by couples who live long time together. You know well each other to play such games or pretend that you are porn-stars.

An old woman risks to look improbable when she wears a short skirt made of black latex. Do you agree with me?

So, guess how the sexual life of my girlfriend at the moment is? No, no, no. Try to guess, not ask me how it is.

Ok. I will tell you. She surprised me. The point is that they make sex everyday. Unbelievable. How much passion could be between them.

She confessed me that they live in this rhythm for the last 10 years. While I turned out was trying to understand what the solution is, she turned red and told about her happy sexual life:

1. Place the bets on the sensitivity. First of all try to like yourself. Believe that “butter” for the body is not nonsense, we can do without, that it makes your skin more delicate. Those pheromones, which are sold in the stores now – aren’t a fiction, in fact they influence the opposite sex. (By the way, you can buy pheromone box and taste it on your colleagues, firstly. I have just tried it and I can’t work at the moment!).

2. Use vaginal beads to train the intimate muscles. I can’t understand what is funny here. While you are laughing, they are used by someone quietly, silently and this person trains the muscles without being noticed.

According to Internet, women buy vaginal beads often: the pleasure is big during the process, and feelings after their usage are like in the faraway youth.
3. Time to time, buy sex toys and use them together with your sexual partner. Try to start with neutral sex toys if the vibrators are contra-indicated psychologically or you know the reaction of your partner.

Modern glamour stores sell, for example, clitoral stimulators; it could be very hard to determine which kind of “game” they are produced for.

That’s why your partner will not be confused with your purchase, if he is educated in a conservative tradition. Don’t you want to buy realistic products, which look awfully?

They aren’t sold in the presentable places. On the other hand, when you visit such places with your sexual partner, you could choose together intimate lingerie, because he wants to see you in such sex lingerie tonight.

So, what is the secret? My girlfriend, 10 years ago, being in a deep family crisis after the second child birth, confessed herself and her husband that she wants something new. As it turned out – he wanted the same. That evening became a real catalyst for their relationship.

Now, they use sex toys time to time and generally they have a creative attitude to the process. They have never had a lack for ideas.

I think that all that is because sex is inexhaustible, and love is eternal.

Confession of housewife

2008-09-26T05:52:00.000-07:00

Hi for all! I’m Doris and I’m 25. I’m a modern wife. A lovely wife. A trusty friend. A person who loves her life.

How about some smiles on your face? Ready to get fun? Would you like to come with some trendy ideas, fresh thoughts and reliable advice? Well, feel free to visit this “space” and get satisfaction.

I have created this blog in order to express myself about the main problems related to housewives, my feelings regarding to family, sex and home.

I have discussed with many housewives and I can’t remember at least one couple which has never had a sex problem during their life together.

Nevertheless, every problem has a solution. Ingenious housewives have found lots of ways to overcome misunderstandings in their home.

A friend of mine has resorted to some tricks which saved her relationship.

So, how did she keep her family apart from these ordinary, banal problems?

She confessed to me that the only person who has “lodged” her heart until now is her husband. Meanwhile, she has understood that even the most passionate lovemaking can be boring, dull and unpleasant.

As you can guess, her sexual life has become as colorless as the one of many, many couples from the world.

The same thoughts… The same habits… The same weekend spend with his grandparents…Every day his favorite cake. Every night the same movie… Damn it!

Would not you get sick and tired of these deja vu?

I have never understood the reason why such things happen. None of them is guilty – both partners try to do those things that make each other happy. Unfortunately, the result leaves much to be desired.

Why?

Most probably, I don’t perceive such a simply matter.

Believe it or not, couples’ sex life in a long lasting marriage “limps”. For those who want to contradict me, you just hide this truth or don’t realize it.

It’s a fact. According to sexologists, such twosomes cease to make sex at all.

What to do, ladies and gentlemen? Housewives and girlfriends?

How to rekindle our feelings? How to arouse your sexual appetite?

These are the simplest questions posed by most “healthy” couples.

Sometime I ask myself – what should I do in order to have sex. What should I do to wake his interest in me? I don’t refer only to a deep respect and frank sympathy. I do want sex.

Ouch, I go in the kitchen to prepare dinner for my husband.

I will continue my thought in the next post. See you.

(to be continued)