Showing posts with label dark side of love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dark side of love. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

How to show "I love you" to your lover?



Sometimes, it is very difficult for me to say “I love you” to my husband.

Or rather, I want to break the rules and want to express my feelings in other ways.
So, can you imagine how to do it? Well. I have found the right method.

First of all, I think when to “say” it. I’m going to prepare either a romantic dinner and show how much I love him, or, organize a lazy Saturday morning in the bed. I will follow the first variant.

In fact, I want to be the first (from us) who will show my feelings in different way. I will do it unexpectedly for him. He will be very surprised.

O-la-la. I want to see his face in such minutes, in minutes when I will say in such way about my big love to him.

But, I have a fear. The fear if he will understand me correctly. In fact, I dream about the same declaration of love, but I’m not sure if he responses the same way as me.
Generally, I think that telling somebody “I love you” is a big courage and this person merits my admiration.

So, I’m ready to show my love not saying it. Why? As you have already understood, I told him about my love long time ago and not only once. Now, I want to do it differently, in a more romantic way.

What to do? How to show my love, respect and admirer?

I’m going to fill out the fridge with his favorite beer. He will appreciate my efforts.
Then, the romantic dinner will come. Tasty dishes, my kisses and then - the bed covered with roses petals. Isn’t this a simple way to show your love?

Readers, do you have anything to say? How do you say “I love you” to your lover, not using words?

I would like to see your ideas, comments and even suggestions on the bottom of this post.


Wednesday, January 28, 2009

What things could make women happy?



“The little box of tea is empty. Could I throw it away?”


“No way! I want to keep this box. It is beautiful. I have a box – I said to my colleague (This colleague allows me to keep this box after tea is finished). I have a box – the same happy voice sounds around. It’s my voice. It’s a voice of happiness”


Somebody looks at me in a confused way. The phrase doesn’t remain without reply: “I didn’t know that an empty box can make a woman happy. Do you really enjoy it? You are crazy…”


Have you ever felt happiness because of an unimportant thing?


Maybe a smile, a touch of a lover, a cup of tea served in bed … in the morning or …

I do. I enjoy such things very much. They are more appreciated than other ones: luxurious car, red dress, mobile phone and so on.


So, what things could make us, women, happy?


Women, let’s talk about this interesting question. Can a gold jewelry – doesn’t matter what kind – earrings made of gold and Swarovski crystals or platinum rings encrusted with gemstones or other ones, make you happy?


Perhaps, it will be for the moment, but then your soul will be empty again.


Tenderness. Love. Nice words. Kind words. Affection. Do you want to be woken up in the morning with a kiss on your lips, hair or your neck?


Man, be ready. If you find the answer for this question you will discover the secret that will develop your relationship.


Just as a candle burns continuously because something takes care about it, so the love needs “firewood” to keep the relationship alive.



Monday, January 5, 2009

What is happiness?



But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads?


Albert Camus

Do you have your own opinion?

Write about it.

Let the words which stay in your soul come out.

Write, write and write... This will help you to overcome the unhappiness..

The dark side of love


Have you ever fallen in love? If yes, it seems that you know about white and dark side of love.


In love as in war, there is one winner.


First of all, you see only the white side of love. You are happy together, he/she is interesting. We have lots of things in common.


All things are pink for you. You think that the whole world is yours. Angels fly around you. You smile. You cry. Your mood changes every second. And all these things happen because of her/him.


You are captured. You can’t breathe without her/him. Every his/her delay makes you unhappy.


Both of you eat out of the same dish. Sleep in the same bed. Sing the same song.

You listen with an open mouth all the words which come out from this mouth.


You are captured again. Captured by his/her kiss, smile, hands


Then, he/she starts delaying. You waited him/her, but he/she didn’t come.

Dark. Dark around you. You still love him/her, in spite of the fact that you aren’t friends anymore.


Your dreams are full of his/her image. You can’t even eat because he/she isn’t near you.


She/he doesn’t take the phone when you make calls. You saw him/her with another person. Depression.


A dark, very dark depression.


“She/he doesn’t love me anymore. My life doesn’t have any sense”. These phrases are typical for people who were disappointed in love.


How are you? How do you feel today? – Somebody try to return you back.


Back to a normal life. A pink life, where there is only happiness.