What things could make women happy?

“The little box of tea is empty. Could I throw it away?”

“No way! I want to keep this box. It is beautiful. I have a box – I said to my colleague (This colleague allows me to keep this box after tea is finished). I have a box – the same happy voice sounds around. It’s my voice. It’s a voice of happiness”

Somebody looks at me in a confused way. The phrase doesn’t remain without reply: “I didn’t know that an empty box can make a woman happy. Do you really enjoy it? You are crazy…”

Have you ever felt happiness because of an unimportant thing?

Maybe a smile, a touch of a lover, a cup of tea served in bed … in the morning or …

I do. I enjoy such things very much. They are more appreciated than other ones: luxurious car, red dress, mobile phone and so on.

So, what things could make us, women, happy?

Women, let’s talk about this interesting question. Can a gold jewelry – doesn’t matter what kind – earrings made of gold and Swarovski crystals or platinum rings encrusted with gemstones or other ones, make you happy?

Perhaps, it will be for the moment, but then your soul will be empty again.

Tenderness. Love. Nice words. Kind words. Affection. Do you want to be woken up in the morning with a kiss on your lips, hair or your neck?

Man, be ready. If you find the answer for this question you will discover the secret that will develop your relationship.

Just as a candle burns continuously because something takes care about it, so the love needs “firewood” to keep the relationship alive.

How to be a good wife?

It’s very important to be a good wife if you wish to keep your family out of problems. And doesn’t matter what kind of problems: financial or psychological.
Follow some rules and you will be over the moon.

Be confident in yourself

If he is tired or comes late from work, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you anymore. If he is with you, it means that he wants to be. You will look sexy for him, even if it isn’t so.

Remember that treatment and readiness take part from the same list of characteristic “To be sexy”. Self-respect is good for marriage. Assure that your life is still fun and interesting.

Show your feelings and express your needs

Don’t wait till the moment when he will want or ask something. Take the initiative - ask him things that you need. If something is wrong - tell him and discuss about this. As you know, the problems can’t be solved by themselves.

After some time they become more difficult. Try to do it in time and you should do it calmly, clearly and directly. Some expressions work for you. “I feel bad” obliges him to ask “Why”.

Use this “I feel” often and you will see the difference.

Be realistic

As you know, there isn’t a perfect human from all over the world. Don’t expect that he is “Good”.

If both of you keep trying to have a good marriage, you will have it. Have realistic expectations. Only in this case, you will be able to attain them. Otherwise, you will feel yourself purposeless.

Accept him as he is. Don’t try to change him, because you will lose the beautiful parts which he is ready to offer you and you will never know about them.

Unarm yourself

Don’t be nag and fussy, because it can destroy a marriage. As long as the dishes are cleaned, don’t nag how much time it takes or how much your back aches.
Let him to do things as he likes.
Don’t force him to do them as you want, because it could make him angry. Concentrate your attention on important things, not small ones.

Don’t refuse him sex

Sex is an important part of life for majority men. So, offer him sex when he asks. Don’t refuse him telling him a well-known phrase “I feel seek”. Frequent refuses could say him that he isn’t good at this.

It can even change his feelings to rejection and even indignation. So, make sex as much time as he wants and he will return you this kindness in his way.

Have a fun sexual life

Discuss with him about your sexual life. What things you like more and which not. Don’t be afraid to experience something new with him. Explain him how this thing can change your sexual life.

Queen regnant

I am a queen. Yes, a queen of my house. It isn’t a literally meaning but I can say surely: “I am a queen”.

Every day, when I wake up, I put the crown (I keep it on a pillow in the bedroom) on my head and start to give commands to my subordinates: my husband and children.

I can say that they are like slaves but I control every their movement. I dominate their existence and direct them to a right way in their life.

“The Queen loves kneeling to The King”

Why? I have a simple theory about this idiom. She likes kneeling to The King, knowing that in fact she is the person who reigns in the whole kingdom.

What do you know about domination? Do we like it or maybe we were born with such feature.

For me, domination is such as mask. You put it every day. But, when the sun goes down and you go to bed, taking out the crown from your head, you become again the person that you are in reality: sensitive who can be heart easily.

Don’t forget that a small bird called “Kindness” lives in our hearts.

Try to give presents, say nice words, respect your neighbors and donate things or money to necessitous.

Quotation about Money

I am opposed to millionaires, but it would be dangerous to offer me the position

Mark Twain

1 thing

There is 1 thing I want now:

“I want to be made of money” I know, know, they can’t make me happy…
Money... What do you think? Are they important in our life?

Generally, people have 2 opinions regarding this question. Most of them think that money is the most important thing in our life and we could not live without them.
Moreover, they think that everything can be bought, even the health.

Do you have the same opinion?

I wonder how people could have such ideas in their mind. There are lots of millionaires from all over the world but they die, are unhappy, cry, have problems and so on.

Money doesn’t make them happy. Maybe such as majority of people, money makes us happy just for a moment, but after several seconds your mood could change, because of … Everything could be, from a kiss to a look.

No matter how much money you can have, you can’t also save your life if you have an incurable disease.

Remember, millionaire could be unhappier than you, because they should take care about “their happiness”, which could be very difficult nowadays.

Another part of population thinks that money doesn’t have any importance, only “You” and “your soul” is the center of the universe. They could live in misery, eating not healthy food …

Don’t be childish… you can be very rich, using money for high goals, but you shouldn’t forget that first of all you are a human…

Make smart investments, start and run your own business and pay your taxes.

What is happiness?

But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads?

Albert Camus

Do you have your own opinion?

Write about it.

Let the words which stay in your soul come out.

Write, write and write... This will help you to overcome the unhappiness..

The dark side of love

Have you ever fallen in love? If yes, it seems that you know about white and dark side of love.

In love as in war, there is one winner.

First of all, you see only the white side of love. You are happy together, he/she is interesting. We have lots of things in common.

All things are pink for you. You think that the whole world is yours. Angels fly around you. You smile. You cry. Your mood changes every second. And all these things happen because of her/him.

You are captured. You can’t breathe without her/him. Every his/her delay makes you unhappy.

Both of you eat out of the same dish. Sleep in the same bed. Sing the same song.

You listen with an open mouth all the words which come out from this mouth.

You are captured again. Captured by his/her kiss, smile, hands…

Then, he/she starts delaying. You waited him/her, but he/she didn’t come.

Dark. Dark around you. You still love him/her, in spite of the fact that you aren’t friends anymore.

Your dreams are full of his/her image. You can’t even eat because he/she isn’t near you.

She/he doesn’t take the phone when you make calls. You saw him/her with another person. Depression.

A dark, very dark depression.

“She/he doesn’t love me anymore. My life doesn’t have any sense”. These phrases are typical for people who were disappointed in love.

How are you? How do you feel today? – Somebody try to return you back.

Back to a normal life. A pink life, where there is only happiness.