How to be a good wife?

It’s very important to be a good wife if you wish to keep your family out of problems. And doesn’t matter what kind of problems: financial or psychological.
Follow some rules and you will be over the moon.

Be confident in yourself

If he is tired or comes late from work, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you anymore. If he is with you, it means that he wants to be. You will look sexy for him, even if it isn’t so.

Remember that treatment and readiness take part from the same list of characteristic “To be sexy”. Self-respect is good for marriage. Assure that your life is still fun and interesting.

Show your feelings and express your needs

Don’t wait till the moment when he will want or ask something. Take the initiative - ask him things that you need. If something is wrong - tell him and discuss about this. As you know, the problems can’t be solved by themselves.

After some time they become more difficult. Try to do it in time and you should do it calmly, clearly and directly. Some expressions work for you. “I feel bad” obliges him to ask “Why”.

Use this “I feel” often and you will see the difference.

Be realistic

As you know, there isn’t a perfect human from all over the world. Don’t expect that he is “Good”.

If both of you keep trying to have a good marriage, you will have it. Have realistic expectations. Only in this case, you will be able to attain them. Otherwise, you will feel yourself purposeless.

Accept him as he is. Don’t try to change him, because you will lose the beautiful parts which he is ready to offer you and you will never know about them.

Unarm yourself

Don’t be nag and fussy, because it can destroy a marriage. As long as the dishes are cleaned, don’t nag how much time it takes or how much your back aches.
Let him to do things as he likes.
Don’t force him to do them as you want, because it could make him angry. Concentrate your attention on important things, not small ones.

Don’t refuse him sex

Sex is an important part of life for majority men. So, offer him sex when he asks. Don’t refuse him telling him a well-known phrase “I feel seek”. Frequent refuses could say him that he isn’t good at this.

It can even change his feelings to rejection and even indignation. So, make sex as much time as he wants and he will return you this kindness in his way.

Have a fun sexual life

Discuss with him about your sexual life. What things you like more and which not. Don’t be afraid to experience something new with him. Explain him how this thing can change your sexual life.