It was like in a fairy tale. Your secret admirer who stood in the last school desk. Your best girl friend who helped you in the most difficult situations.
It was really, really nice. Lots of such recollections are in our head, they don’t leave us and time to time they come back in our memory.
So, why I’m writing this? I want to say that 10 years passed after I finished the school. One of my ex-colleagues, Eric, called me last week and said that we should organize a meeting to celebrate it.
In that minute, many scenes of our school together passed in front of my eyes. How I could forget about this important event?
I turned red but my ex-colleague hasn’t seen me, it was a discussion by phone.
O, la, la. Who discovered the telephone? It was a genius.
However, we chose a beautiful and silent place where we could met each others and to have long and nice discussions.
The time was over. All my worries remained at home and I went to the meeting.
The place was really nice. Incredible, but here you may forget about all your problems, necessities. You are together with the nature only.
Ah, how much happiness could be in my heart!
I sow all my ex-colleagues. Incredible, but they haven’t changed much. Their faces remained the same; I read only some maturity in their eyes.
By the way, there was a funny situation. Somebody asked me: “Do you remember me?”
How I could forget such smile, lips and voice. It was he, it was my unforgettable love. It’s still in my mind and time to time appears in my night’s dreams.
Of course, we discussed a lot: about our new love, new life’s goals and how we missed each other. Don’t think that we gave ourselves up to passion. We just only flirted a little.
Majority of ex-colleagues have already a family, even children. All of them work, have the same habitual problems as me.
We discussed hours and hours on end. Everybody spoke, everybody listened and everybody said fine words.
We spoke as adults, but sometime we recollected how we studied together and everybody had a smile on his face.
We though about that, smiling, because we were so dumb at that time.
And about the place… The place was incredible. The rustic design made me speechless.
The view was magnificent. I decided to go to that place next holiday.
So, I saw my ex-colleagues. The time spent with them was the shortest.
And, some bliss and calmness came into my heart. I’m happy.
I’m reading the book of Hardy Tomas. It is called “The Mayor of Casterbridge”. It is the drama of an English family.
In my opinion, up to this moment the scenario is an ordinary one. But after 2 hours of reading I have changed my mind. What a drag! - The husband has sold his wife and daughter during an auction.
They have been bought by a sailor. Thus, they left for Canada with this sailor. By the way, her husband was drunk when he sold his wife and child.
Oh! Is too late; I close the book and go to bed ….
I can’t sleep. My thoughts are imbued with curiosity. I still think of her sufferings. What else to say? - Some men proved to be betrayers. While thinking, thinking and thinking ….
I feel asleep. I saw a dream, a story with a happy end like in most fairy tales related by my adorable grandma many years ago.
Morning
Tic-Tac. It’s 7 o’clock. The sun’s rays are joyfully playing right on the cover of my book.
I missed it. I don’t delay to open it up and start my exciting reading.
To my surprise, the events turned into another way. I was shocked when I found out that the sailor has been lost in the sea.
The woman’s daughter (from her first husband) died. And after 18 years this poor woman returned to her first husband. Yes, remember! The very traitor!
So, what happened with her first husband? After drunken stupor, he realized what did he do, but it was too late. He kicked drinking at all and in a few years he became the mayor of the Casterbridge and grew rich.
Believe it or not she returned to her first husband and he accepted her.
Moreover, she has convinced him that her daughter Marry-Jane is his. In fact, this girl was the sailor’s daughter. He didn’t know that his natural daughter died immediately after they have been sold to the sailor.
By the time, people from the village in which he was the mayor have heard about his deeds and lost their respect for him.
Step by step he lost his money and he became penniless. Marry-Jane got married with his rival and his son-in-low became the new mayor. The husband started to drink again. All his life was ruined after so many years of success. I am surprised by such an end.
Saturday
All Saturdays, I and my friends use to go out for a drink. As usual, we discuss about all things which happened during the whole week.
So, I’ve related about the read book and its dramatic final. One of my friends has claimed that the wife is stupid and pitiable: “How could she tolerate such life”. The other one has stated: “How could she return to him after his awful deeds?”
All my friends discuss about this book. Finally, we all drew a conclusion “It’s very important to carefully choose the budding husband. Because this is for whole life”.
What about you? What do you think about that? Do you have the same life or maybe yours is better?
Did you miss me? I suppose - yes. I missed you so much all that time I waited edgily. So, how are you today? I address to housewives – which kind of cooking have you prepare today? I have made a tasty cake – can I feast you?
If you don’t want I will continue with the story about my friend. As you know, there are lots of different prescriptions for each holiday.
Unfortunately, there are no prescriptions for young couples. Do you remember how you loved each other in a romantic atmosphere with candles, champagnes and marine products mini-dinners? Yes, it was so romantic, so excited and appetizingly (not only the dinner but also the sexual partner).
Such prescription can’t be practice by couples who live long time together. You know well each other to play such games or pretend that you are porn-stars.
An old woman risks to look improbable when she wears a short skirt made of black latex. Do you agree with me?
So, guess how the sexual life of my girlfriend at the moment is? No, no, no. Try to guess, not ask me how it is.
Ok. I will tell you. She surprised me. The point is that they make sex everyday. Unbelievable. How much passion could be between them.
She confessed me that they live in this rhythm for the last 10 years. While I turned out was trying to understand what the solution is, she turned red and told about her happy sexual life:
1. Place the bets on the sensitivity. First of all try to like yourself. Believe that “butter” for the body is not nonsense, we can do without, that it makes your skin more delicate. Those pheromones, which are sold in the stores now – aren’t a fiction, in fact they influence the opposite sex. (By the way, you can buy pheromone box and taste it on your colleagues, firstly. I have just tried it and I can’t work at the moment!).
2. Use vaginal beads to train the intimate muscles. I can’t understand what is funny here. While you are laughing, they are used by someone quietly, silently and this person trains the muscles without being noticed.
According to Internet, women buy vaginal beads often: the pleasure is big during the process, and feelings after their usage are like in the faraway youth. 3. Time to time, buy sex toys and use them together with your sexual partner. Try to start with neutral sex toys if the vibrators are contra-indicated psychologically or you know the reaction of your partner.
Modern glamour stores sell, for example, clitoral stimulators; it could be very hard to determine which kind of “game” they are produced for.
That’s why your partner will not be confused with your purchase, if he is educated in a conservative tradition. Don’t you want to buy realistic products, which look awfully?
They aren’t sold in the presentable places. On the other hand, when you visit such places with your sexual partner, you could choose together intimate lingerie, because he wants to see you in such sex lingerie tonight.
So, what is the secret? My girlfriend, 10 years ago, being in a deep family crisis after the second child birth, confessed herself and her husband that she wants something new. As it turned out – he wanted the same. That evening became a real catalyst for their relationship.
Now, they use sex toys time to time and generally they have a creative attitude to the process. They have never had a lack for ideas.
I think that all that is because sex is inexhaustible, and love is eternal.
Hi for all! I’m Doris and I’m 25. I’m a modern wife. A lovely wife. A trusty friend. A person who loves her life.
How about some smiles on your face? Ready to get fun? Would you like to come with some trendy ideas, fresh thoughts and reliable advice? Well, feel free to visit this “space” and get satisfaction.
I have created this blog in order to express myself about the main problems related to housewives, my feelings regarding to family, sex and home.
I have discussed with many housewives and I can’t remember at least one couple which has never had a sex problem during their life together.
Nevertheless, every problem has a solution. Ingenious housewives have found lots of ways to overcome misunderstandings in their home.
A friend of mine has resorted to some tricks which saved her relationship.
So, how did she keep her family apart from these ordinary, banal problems?
She confessed to me that the only person who has “lodged” her heart until now is her husband. Meanwhile, she has understood that even the most passionate lovemaking can be boring, dull and unpleasant.
As you can guess, her sexual life has become as colorless as the one of many, many couples from the world.
The same thoughts… The same habits… The same weekend spend with his grandparents…Every day his favorite cake. Every night the same movie… Damn it!
Would not you get sick and tired of these deja vu?
I have never understood the reason why such things happen. None of them is guilty – both partners try to do those things that make each other happy. Unfortunately, the result leaves much to be desired.
Why?
Most probably, I don’t perceive such a simply matter.
Believe it or not, couples’ sex life in a long lasting marriage “limps”. For those who want to contradict me, you just hide this truth or don’t realize it.
It’s a fact. According to sexologists, such twosomes cease to make sex at all.
What to do, ladies and gentlemen? Housewives and girlfriends?
How to rekindle our feelings? How to arouse your sexual appetite?
These are the simplest questions posed by most “healthy” couples.
Sometime I ask myself – what should I do in order to have sex. What should I do to wake his interest in me? I don’t refer only to a deep respect and frank sympathy. I do want sex.
Ouch, I go in the kitchen to prepare dinner for my husband.
I will continue my thought in the next post. See you.
And, oh God, in my misspent youth as a housewife, I, too, used to bake bread, in those hectic and desolating days just prior to the woman’s movement, when middle-class women were supposed to be wonderful wives and mothers, gracious hostesses.... I used to feel so womanly when I was baking my filthy bread.
"My first book took five years to write and I made $1,000 on it. The second took three years and I made $3,000. All this time I was a housewife being supported by a husband. I was very lucky. "
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