She replied me:
“Divorce”
“love”
“sexy body”
“lover”
“bedroom”
I understand her, she has divorced recently. She has a difficult life period and I try to help her.
What about you? Which words do you hate and why?
I’m back.
I was occupied a little that’s why I haven’t written any posts.
I decided to make some changes in the house, especially in the kitchen.
Honestly speaking, I don’t like my old fridge at all. It was a wedding present from my mother-in-low. She didn’t ask which kind of fridge we like and she bought it herself.
As you guess, the fridge isn’t practical and stylish. I hate it.
When the question of changes came up, I was the first one who made suggestions. Guess, which ones?
The first thing which I recommended to be changed was the fridge of course.
The suggestion was approved and we started to visit shops to buy one.
Next days were attritional. Lots of shops, many beautiful fridges and incredible… I didn’t know what to choose.
“I don’t want to buy anything at all” – I said at the end. Can you believe that?
We have money, we want to change the old appliance and when we are ready to buy it – it’s very difficult to do it.
How interesting. It makes me listening to all shop assistants and the information takes me without words.
Haven’t you heard about these?
- The fridges are provided with special super cooling air circulation that ensures better food preservation and a constant and even temperature.
- The cool temperature of fridges slows the growth of most harmful microbes. Moreover, it doesn’t change the characteristics of the food.
Would you like to have such fridge in your house? Indeed.
After some days of thinking, we decided. We will buy a fashionable and practically one.
It has 6 easy-clean glass shelves (I thought of myself), 3 adjustable full-width door shelves, covered dairy compartment, extra large pull-out salad and vegetable drawers.
The frost-free freezer section has 4 removable transparent drawers for easy loading and unloading (I thought again of myself).
Quick-freeze function ensures any freshly-added food is frozen quickly to keep its quality. It is rated ‘A’ for energy consumption.
Finally, I bought it. Can you believe? The kitchen interior changed after the fridge was placed there.
I liked the changes. Perhaps I will continue with the bedroom….
What irony: now, when I have all these things, I want to be that little girl, without any worries and habitual problems.
Very often, my friends and I played games. The most favorite game was the game when you acted the part of housewives. We met our “virtual” husbands, gave them food, had some discussions and then, as it’s normal, we had children.
Have you had such games? I think that every girl have played this game while boys were playing with their little cars and were fighting with so called “not real rivals”.
Now, the things are just a little different. Most often, the husband works all day in order to support financially the family and the wife takes non-financial responsibilities.
Housewives see to the house, prepare food and take care of children (if they are).
Apparently, this life looks like a boring one, but in fact, everybody has lots of works and there isn’t time for thinking about this.
In order to be a good housewife, I will write some rules. Look here:
- Discuss with your husband about the expectations. Ask him: “What are your expectations from me as a housewife?” and vice versa tell him what you expect from him, as a husband. Don’t be afraid to discuss about responsibilities of both of you.
- Take a break. Majority of housewives think that if their status is “housewife” they should look after the house, children, cook and clean twenty four hours a day. However, if they follow such program, after some time they will get tired. It means that they will not be able to manage the house and the whole nine yards. If you feel the same, it’s time to “recharge the batteries”. Take a pause: visit a spa, do exercises, visit a fitness, go out with your best friends, talk with them about your feelings, listen their advice … Permit him to make some house works: take care of children, preparing some foods and only in this case he will respect you, because he will see how hard could be this work, maybe harder than his office work. I mean physically work.
- Be ready to listen to your husband. Generally, the working men could be divided in 2 parts: some of them, after a hard working day, prefer to sit in front of TV or read a newspaper before talking with you about his daily work, others – start to talk just after the house’s door opens. In both cases you should listen to them and support them.
- Prepare food at home. One of the most appreciate thing when we arrive home is the food which can be prepared in a delicious way. Don’t buy fast-food, buy meal and vegetables from the bazaar and prepare a delicious food at home. Your husband will appreciate that.
- Take care of yourself. I know how compressed timetable housewives have. But, you should find time to take care of yourself, because a delicious food with an ugly waitress – isn’t pleasant for anybody. Amaze him with fashionable clothes and stylish make-up. Flirt with him as much as you can. Play some games, for example when you serve him. In fact, the man likes that.
It was like in a fairy tale. Your secret admirer who stood in the last school desk. Your best girl friend who helped you in the most difficult situations.
It was really, really nice. Lots of such recollections are in our head, they don’t leave us and time to time they come back in our memory.
So, why I’m writing this? I want to say that 10 years passed after I finished the school. One of my ex-colleagues, Eric, called me last week and said that we should organize a meeting to celebrate it.
In that minute, many scenes of our school together passed in front of my eyes. How I could forget about this important event?
I turned red but my ex-colleague hasn’t seen me, it was a discussion by phone.
O, la, la. Who discovered the telephone? It was a genius.
However, we chose a beautiful and silent place where we could met each others and to have long and nice discussions.
The time was over. All my worries remained at home and I went to the meeting.
The place was really nice. Incredible, but here you may forget about all your problems, necessities. You are together with the nature only.
Ah, how much happiness could be in my heart!
I sow all my ex-colleagues. Incredible, but they haven’t changed much. Their faces remained the same; I read only some maturity in their eyes.
By the way, there was a funny situation. Somebody asked me: “Do you remember me?”
How I could forget such smile, lips and voice. It was he, it was my unforgettable love. It’s still in my mind and time to time appears in my night’s dreams.
Of course, we discussed a lot: about our new love, new life’s goals and how we missed each other. Don’t think that we gave ourselves up to passion. We just only flirted a little.
Majority of ex-colleagues have already a family, even children. All of them work, have the same habitual problems as me.
We discussed hours and hours on end. Everybody spoke, everybody listened and everybody said fine words.
We spoke as adults, but sometime we recollected how we studied together and everybody had a smile on his face.
We though about that, smiling, because we were so dumb at that time.
And about the place… The place was incredible. The rustic design made me speechless.
The view was magnificent. I decided to go to that place next holiday.
So, I saw my ex-colleagues. The time spent with them was the shortest.
And, some bliss and calmness came into my heart. I’m happy.