This weekend was officially opened the Holiday Shopping.
I think it;s time ti think seriously about Holidays gifts, about what you'll wear in the New Year night and what to present to your family: parents, children and husband.
I like to present gifts, especially on Holidays. I like to plug the lights on the tree. Great Holidays... Great Gifts and happiness.
You can shows your respect and love for close persons namely on this time. It means that the gifts that you are ready to present them should show your love and admiration.
What to present on this Holiday? maybe, tees, balls, towels, club covers, visors and so on. The list of gifts are so long that sometime is impossible to read the end.
How to play: Pick a time interval -- 20 minutes, let's say. (If you're like us, even 10 minutes will be a change from the norm.)
Whatever interval you choose, absolutely do not allow penetration until that much time has elapsed.
Why: Most busy couples have foreplay down to a science -- and a bare minimum as well. "Time Bomb" refocuses you on the pregame show, the part that used to be so much fun before you lived together.
You'll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. You get really creative. You get really hot.
What does the Retro housewife day look like? Well, we get up, get our kids off to school, pack our hubbies a sandwich and wish them a safe drive. Then our day is OPEN? Some of us watch Oprah or the Soaps, some have a regular routine, for housewives with children our lives revolve around them and their activities, some paint do charity work...or maybe we run a home based business.
Some Retros have money, and for them running the house is comparable to running a small company, managing the staff, scheduling the projects, projecting an image of perfection to the outside world.
The best Retros understand that their purpose is to make life worth living for themselves and their families. That, no matter their income level or social status, they are the center of their families universe and the one who has the difficult task of making the most out of whatever resources are available to them.
In keeping a house, the job is to make it a home. In raising children, it is to turn out well balanced emotionally stable human beings that have the confidence and personal convictions they will need to make their way productively and happily in life. In being a wife, our job is one of support, confidante, companion, lover and best friend.
No small order, but in the end, we are the ones that make the difference in the lives of the other members of our families. Whoever coined the term "little woman" had not the slightest idea of what he spoke, for it is truly "the hand that rocks the cradle" that is an accurate depiction of our role.
We get many emails from housewives who identify with our general opinions on things, and stories about their lives and daily activities. In this section, we are highlighting the things we found in common amongst the hundreds of letters we get.
She looks in the mirror and stares at the wrinkles that weren't there yesterday And thinks of the young man that she almost married What would he think if he saw her this way?
She picks up her apron in little girl-fashion as something comes into her mind Slowly starts dancing rememb'ring her girlhood And all of the boys she had waiting in line
Oh, such are the dreams of the everyday housewife You see ev'rywhere any time of the day An everyday housewife who gave up the good life for me
The photograph album she takes from the closet and slowly turns the page And carefully picks up the crumbling flower The first one he gave her now withered with age
She closes her eyes and touches the house dress that suddenly disappears And just for the moment she's wearing the gown That broke all their minds back so many years
Oh, such are the dreams of the everyday housewife You see ev'rywhere any time of the day An everyday housewife who gave up the good life for me
Oh, such are the dreams of the everyday housewife You see ev'rywhere any time of the day An everyday housewife who gave up the good life for me
Oh, such are the dreams of the everyday housewife
FADE You see ev'rywhere any time of the day An everyday housewife...
I'm not a perfect house keeper. My home is clean, but lived in. I do keep it very clean. I sweep, vacuum and dust almost every day, but it doesn't look like a museum either.
But when this depression set in, my house, though I still swept every day, began to look like I didn't care anymore. Even my husband was troubled by it. You know I didn't go on any medication, I simply got a call from my best friend, after my hubby, bless his heart, called her out of concern.
She laid it on the line, and told me everything about my life she could only dream of having. I have a wonderful husband who loves me with a passion, would never even think of cheating on me, has never abused me, and would do anything to make me happy. I have three wonderful children, though not perfect, they do love me and I them. I have a nice home, and the ability to stay at home and take care of my family.
Ladies, you have to put yourself first. If you don't take care of you, who will?
If you don't take care of you, then you can't be there to take care of the ones you love. I use to have a career, work out, stayed healthy and fit, had a social life, took time out for a bath and a book.
Today I have a schedule again. You may think well why, you're only a house wife. Because being a house wife is like any other profession. If you want it to work you need to run it like a well oiled machine. Which includes every element I need to feel like I am functioning at my best.
A sex toy could be a perfect gift for your boyfriend. But, here, appears a little problem.
First of all, you should make sure that your sexual partner isn’t a shy person and he accepts sex toys. Many men feel themselves insulted when they receive such gifts.
Secondly, if you have used sex toys together before, it means that he isn’t against these toys. If not, have discussions where you’ll find out if he likes them or not. Don’t be shy to ask such questions directly.
Another indication of his preferences regarding sex toys could be his behavior in bed. He will like sex toys if he likes experimenting in bed – new sexual positions, new kinds of sex or watch his reaction and make conclusions when you are discussing about sex toys.
You should know lots of information about his preferences if you want to select the perfect gift for him. This means that you can’t present a sex toy for a new sexual partner with whom you had sex for a few times.
Present him an anal sex toy if he likes to be touch by his butt hole. It could be a butt plug or anal beads or an anal stimulator. All these sex toys can be the perfect gift for him if you select correctly it.
Present him a penis sleeve, a realistic vagina or penis pump if he likes to masturbate a lot. These sex toys will help him to spice up the masturbation. Give him an anal sex toy if he prefers anal stimulation.
Does she like to masturbate in the bathroom? No problem. There are sex toys for such pleasure. They are called waterproof. You may buy him a vibrating Oro stimulator if he is oral sex lover.
You may present him erotic lingerie if Christmas Day is coming. This could be a perfect gift for such special day.
How many times many women imitate orgasm in order not to upset their lovers?
And our men were always ego-strippers. Maybe, it’s time to think about yourself, not to have compassion to them.
Because, less people know that a woman could have 3 types of orgasm: clitoral, vaginal and blended.
Clitoral orgasm
It could be achieved by 2 methods: - Your partner stimulates with his pubis or tongue; - Or, the most well-know – masturbation;
Vaginal orgasm
It happens when the vagina is stimulated by the penis, finger or vibrator. This orgasm comes quicker if the vagina is stimulated faster and oftener. There is one more method, this is more slowly and deeply, but it’s longer.
Blended orgasm
It happens from affections, kisses and embraces without stimulation of genitals. But, this kind of orgasm doesn’t happen for all women. Usually, it lasts more rarely than one minute and it’s called solitary orgasm.
Many women are in error, accusing their partners in inability to get them pleasure. Otherwise, orgasm doesn’t happen from genitals, but from head. More exactly, many women aren’t able to listen for their own feelings, learn personal intimate reactions. Don’t be ashamed to masturbate.
And, if you have orgasm while masturbating, means that you can have it with a partner too.
Because, many women think about how they look during of sexual intercourse … It’s necessary only to switch off your brain and get pleasure, enjoying from kisses and intimate affections.
If the woman clears out all unnecessary thoughts, she will be able to enjoy from the process itself and in result she will get that pleasure that she has dreamed about for a long period of time.
Barbie, the glamorous blonde doll beloved by little girls around the world, is an icon of American femininity. She is also the most long-lived toy on the market, a fact that was celebrated throughout the world when she recently had her 40th birthday.
But in a tiny village in Bavaria there was no celebration, only bitterness and regret.
In the Hausser home, Rolf and Lily ignored the global celebrations and instead complained bitterly, as they have done so many times over the past four decades, about how badly they have been treated by history, or, to be more accurate, by Barbie’s secret story.
Like many starts, Barbie is not what she seems. Not only is she older than her official age, but Barbie is not real name, and what’s more, she isn’t even American, she’s German.
Barbie’s real name is in fact Lily. She is 45, not 40, and was born in a small town near Nuremberg. The secret story of the Barbie doll is about small-town naivety against big business determination.
Above all, it is a story of the tragedy of a bitter old man, a man who was been erased from Barbie’s history so completely that only a few people in the world know that he was the true creator of the Barbie doll.
But instead of making a fortune when she became a worldwide success, Rolf Hausser lost everything he owned.
During the last fifty years psychologists have made us believe that differences between men and women are mainly the result of traditional social “conditioning” i.e the way we are brought up.
According to the theory women can be trained to do jobs that men traditionally do, and men can and should be in touch with his “feminine side”, more communicative and emotional, and should do the ironing.
According to recent scientific research, gender differences exist because men’s and women’s brains work completely differently and their biological differences mean that they can never think or behave in the same way.
Try this experiment: read a passage aloud from a book or magazine. At the same time, tap on the table with one finger, and try to maintain a constant speed. Do this first with your right hand and then with your left hand.
If you are a woman, you will be able to maintain a constant speed with either hand. Men however, when tapping with their left hand, will slow down.
This is one of the many experiments which proves that men’s brains are in compartments, with verbal abilities on the left side and spatial abilities on the right. For women, however, verbal and spatial problems are dealt with on both the left and right sides of the brain.
We live in an imperfect world, yet we are constantly given the message that everything should be perfect: our homes, our garden, our children and ourselves.
According to scientists, this obsession with perfection is one of the main causes of stress and depression nowadays – nobody ever thinks they are good enough.
But is doings things perfectly a positive thing? Some experts are not so sure.
I would like to write in my post about one example of “perfection”. It would be about a perfect housewife.
So, she keeps her house in perfect order, thinks about everything her partner might want and makes an enormous effort to keep herself fit and fashionable.
She is always busy and is admired by everyone who knows her.
But, according to specialists in stress, the reality is that her partner is probably wishing he lived with somebody who was more relaxed and would let him put their feet up on the sofa in the evening.
Even if we have am extremely healthy diet and lifestyle, the human body is programmed to wear out at a maximum of about 120 years, and usually less.
We all have a biological clock inside us which determines the moment when our organs cease to function properly. This is because our cells have stopped renewing themselves and our body can no longer repair itself.
This is also the moment when we are more likely to begin to suffer from the diseases of old age. However, rapid advances in DNA research are beginning to throw light on the secrets of the ageing process.
By the end of this century we could literally have the power of life over death. Although it has long been accepted that humans have a fixed lifespan, it is also a fact that certain other organisms, such as reptiles and amphibians, appear to live indefinitely.
The only reason we do not see 500-year-old alligators is because in the wild their lives are always in danger, from man, from pollution and from other animals. When they are kept in zoo they do not seem to age at all after they are fully grown. The same is true about some species of fish, which grow indefinitely and show no sings of ageing.
The existence of animals with no fixed lifespan seems to indicate that an age gene really does exist. It is this gene which scientists are searching for, which may retard or repair damage to the body caused by ageing.
Another new area of research involves the oxidation theory, which says that ageing is caused by the same process that makes iron rust. In controlled experiments, the lifespans of certain animals were shown to be lengthened with anti-oxidants; for example, the lifespan of mice can be increased by 30%.
Anti-oxidants are already being used in face creams and other cosmetics, and they are likely to plan an important part in keeping people physically young.
Perhaps the most immediate advance we are likely to see in the battle to halt the ageing process will be organ replacement. By the year 2020 it is likely that we will be replacing injured bones or even organs like livers and kidneys with one’s “grown” in laboratories.
By 2050 perhaps every organ in the body, except the brain, will have become commercially available. Recent experiments also show that it may one day be possible to “grow” new organs inside our body to replace worn-out ones, something which lizards and lizards and alligators already do.
Suddenly immortality seems within reach. We can begin to imagine a future where we are born, we grow to maturity, but we never grow old and die. But do we really want to live forever?
How are you, my dears? Hope well. I’m well too and I have decided to write this new post.
What to write about? Everyday happen lots of events and it is hard for me to decide what deserves to be mentioned in my blog. Recently I have found a school friend through Internet. You know sites like … and so on.
Well, I was surprised about her job. I have never known that such job exists – photographer. Much less I can combine this job with a woman.
But, she exists and she has this job. In fact she is a professional in her job. Her pictures are amazing and unusual.
I will add some of them in this post and you will appreciate their value. As she told me, her profession was started as a hobby, then, it became her loaf of bread.
As she started as an amateur, her husband became the main character of her photos. She combines well the image of her husband and environment.
Look hear!! It seems that he wants to eat this poor insect. His mouth is strongly opened and the insect is in such a big hole, an infinite hole.
Look again!! It seems that the insect has no escape. Its life is on limit… Will he let this insect go or will he really eat it? Funny….
After this story, I can say only one thing – let your imagination work, don’t inhibit it. One day… I see myself in a large building where an exposition of my photos takes place. Photos are everywhere, lots of people come to see them and I … I’m happy… Ouch, I’m here with you, not somewhere… in a dream.
Well, I will finish my post with kisses and good whishes for you.
Sometimes, it is very difficult for me to say “I love you” to my husband.
Or rather, I want to break the rules and want to express my feelings in other ways. So, can you imagine how to do it? Well. I have found the right method.
First of all, I think when to “say” it. I’m going to prepare either a romantic dinner and show how much I love him, or, organize a lazy Saturday morning in the bed. I will follow the first variant.
In fact, I want to be the first (from us) who will show my feelings in different way. I will do it unexpectedly for him. He will be very surprised.
O-la-la. I want to see his face in such minutes, in minutes when I will say in such way about my big love to him.
But, I have a fear. The fear if he will understand me correctly. In fact, I dream about the same declaration of love, but I’m not sure if he responses the same way as me. Generally, I think that telling somebody “I love you” is a big courage and this person merits my admiration.
So, I’m ready to show my love not saying it. Why? As you have already understood, I told him about my love long time ago and not only once. Now, I want to do it differently, in a more romantic way.
What to do? How to show my love, respect and admirer?
I’m going to fill out the fridge with his favorite beer. He will appreciate my efforts. Then, the romantic dinner will come. Tasty dishes, my kisses and then - the bed covered with roses petals. Isn’t this a simple way to show your love?
Readers, do you have anything to say? How do you say “I love you” to your lover, not using words?
I would like to see your ideas, comments and even suggestions on the bottom of this post.
Well, well, well. The time is coming. What for? Haven’t I told you?
So, tonight I will have a cocktail party. The husband’s workmates are going to come to our house to have discussions and share cocktails.
It sounds good. I’m glad to host such kind of party. Let’s have fun my dears. Actually, I’m a good hostess. I always take care of my guests, that’s why I prefer to prepare everything in advance.
So, what do I have? The house is clean. Moreover I have improvised a bar in the living room. The guests will serve each other with drinks. What kind of drink? We will serve cocktails, martinis and wine.
I have prepared also finger foods which suits perfectly for a cocktail party. I have arranged them on several platters and have put them near the bar. The house is full of smell. The smell is different: from food to alcohol. But, there is no time for complaints.
Well, I will tell you about the cocktail. It will be trendy. It will consist of 4 basic liquors: vodka, rum, scotch and gin. I will add also orange juice, coke, sparkling water and soda. I haven’t forgotten about olives formartinis. They are in the fridge already, waiting their appearance.
Wait, wait… How about the ice? I have a lot. I expect that the cocktail party will be very hot.
I doubt that my guests will not be surprised.
I have a problem. I can’t find a calm music which will not disturb the conversation between the guests. I think about “Sade” but I’m not sure. As you know calm music contains tension, maybe I will choose a calm one.
I will phone my husband and I will consult him. It’s a good idea. He knows his workmates better than me.
Time runs fast. I’m hearing even the voices of first guests. They are outside the door. They are tooting the ringer.
I put off the apron and go to the door. I open it and my smile welcomes them. Sara and Ben. They are always punctual.
As usual I took a cup of coffee, put a make-up on my face, dressed fashionable clothes and then drove my red car “Opel Corsa”. The direction was to my work, to the center of the city.
As usual, the traffic was full. Lots of cars were in 2-3 queues. They were waiting for… What for?
Actually, I hate to stand in queue. I’d prefer a good morning: no queues, traffic jams, smiling people, happy people…
However, I came to the center and I remembered than I had to send a letter to my aunt. So, I parked the car near the post office and was about to come in when a young man stopped me.
I was surprised by such courage, but then I understood why he did it. Firstly, I will describe how he looked like. He wore a green jacket, green hate, and green trousers.
Then, my attention was focused on his bag. As you guess, it had the same color as the rest of clothes. The bag had also an inscription. And, I tried to read the text from it. “Jacobs”. Bingo. I unlocked the secret. It was an advertising method for coffee promotion. The guy gave me a green envelope. I looked inside.
Guess, what was there? I was surprised myself.
So, I started to pull out from it. Firstly, I got off 2 one-time coffee’s bags, then 2-3 coffee’s grains, one brochure with some information about coffee Jacobs.
Nice. Very nice actually.
On his face was a big smile. He said: “For you my lady”. I couldn’t refuse the envelope and his smile too. I smiled in return.
I asked him “You have a promotion campaign?”
“Yes” – he replied.
The smile hasn’t gone from his face. I thanked him very much and then entered the post office.
I have had a great disposition for entire day. I shared the coffee even with my workmate. We drank the coffee and thought how great it is.
Moreover, we started to think how the coffee is made and how it comes on our table.
How do you start your day my readers? Do you have other methods than me? Tell us your secret, we will try it if deserves.
“The little box of tea is empty. Could I throw it away?”
“No way! I want to keep this box. It is beautiful. I have a box – I said to my colleague (This colleague allows me to keep this box after tea is finished). I have a box – the same happy voice sounds around. It’s my voice. It’s a voice of happiness”
Somebody looks at me in a confused way. The phrase doesn’t remain without reply: “I didn’t know that an empty box can make a woman happy. Do you really enjoy it? You are crazy…”
Have you ever felt happiness because of an unimportant thing?
Maybe a smile, a touch of a lover, a cup of tea served in bed … in the morning or …
I do. I enjoy such things very much. They are more appreciated than other ones: luxurious car, red dress, mobile phone and so on.
So, what things could make us, women, happy?
Women, let’s talk about this interesting question. Can a gold jewelry – doesn’t matter what kind – earrings made of gold and Swarovski crystals or platinum rings encrusted with gemstones or other ones, make you happy?
Perhaps, it will be for the moment, but then your soul will be empty again.
Tenderness. Love. Nice words. Kind words. Affection. Do you want to be woken up in the morning with a kiss on your lips, hair or your neck?
Man, be ready. If you find the answer for this question you will discover the secret that will develop your relationship.
Just as a candle burns continuously because something takes care about it, so the love needs “firewood” to keep the relationship alive.
It’s very important to be a good wife if you wish to keep your family out of problems. And doesn’t matter what kind of problems: financial or psychological. Follow some rules and you will be over the moon.
Be confident in yourself
If he is tired or comes late from work, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you anymore. If he is with you, it means that he wants to be. You will look sexy for him, even if it isn’t so.
Remember that treatment and readiness take part from the same list of characteristic “To be sexy”. Self-respect is good for marriage. Assure that your life is still fun and interesting.
Show your feelings and express your needs
Don’t wait till the moment when he will want or ask something. Take the initiative - ask him things that you need. If something is wrong - tell him and discuss about this. As you know, the problems can’t be solved by themselves.
After some time they become more difficult. Try to do it in time and you should do it calmly, clearly and directly. Some expressions work for you. “I feel bad” obliges him to ask “Why”.
Use this “I feel” often and you will see the difference.
Be realistic
As you know, there isn’t a perfect human from all over the world. Don’t expect that he is “Good”.
If both of you keep trying to have a good marriage, you will have it. Have realistic expectations. Only in this case, you will be able to attain them. Otherwise, you will feel yourself purposeless.
Accept him as he is. Don’t try to change him, because you will lose the beautiful parts which he is ready to offer you and you will never know about them.
Unarm yourself
Don’t be nag and fussy, because it can destroy a marriage. As long as the dishes are cleaned, don’t nag how much time it takes or how much your back aches. Let him to do things as he likes. Don’t force him to do them as you want, because it could make him angry. Concentrate your attention on important things, not small ones.
Don’t refuse him sex
Sex is an important part of life for majority men. So, offer him sex when he asks. Don’t refuse him telling him a well-known phrase “I feel seek”. Frequent refuses could say him that he isn’t good at this.
It can even change his feelings to rejection and even indignation. So, make sex as much time as he wants and he will return you this kindness in his way.
Have a fun sexual life
Discuss with him about your sexual life. What things you like more and which not. Don’t be afraid to experience something new with him. Explain him how this thing can change your sexual life.
I am a queen. Yes, a queen of my house. It isn’t a literally meaning but I can say surely: “I am a queen”.
Every day, when I wake up, I put the crown (I keep it on a pillow in the bedroom) on my head and start to give commands to my subordinates: my husband and children.
I can say that they are like slaves but I control every their movement. I dominate their existence and direct them to a right way in their life.
“The Queen loves kneeling to The King”
Why? I have a simple theory about this idiom. She likes kneeling to The King, knowing that in fact she is the person who reigns in the whole kingdom.
What do you know about domination? Do we like it or maybe we were born with such feature.
For me, domination is such as mask. You put it every day. But, when the sun goes down and you go to bed, taking out the crown from your head, you become again the person that you are in reality: sensitive who can be heart easily.
Don’t forget that a small bird called “Kindness” lives in our hearts.
Try to give presents, say nice words, respect your neighbors and donate things or money to necessitous.
“I want to be made of money” I know, know, they can’t make me happy… Money... What do you think? Are they important in our life?
Generally, people have 2 opinions regarding this question. Most of them think that money is the most important thing in our life and we could not live without them. Moreover, they think that everything can be bought, even the health.
Do you have the same opinion?
I wonder how people could have such ideas in their mind. There are lots of millionaires from all over the world but they die, are unhappy, cry, have problems and so on.
Money doesn’t make them happy. Maybe such as majority of people, money makes us happy just for a moment, but after several seconds your mood could change, because of … Everything could be, from a kiss to a look.
No matter how much money you can have, you can’t also save your life if you have an incurable disease.
Remember, millionaire could be unhappier than you, because they should take care about “their happiness”, which could be very difficult nowadays.
Another part of population thinks that money doesn’t have any importance, only “You” and “your soul” is the center of the universe. They could live in misery, eating not healthy food …
Don’t be childish… you can be very rich, using money for high goals, but you shouldn’t forget that first of all you are a human…
Make smart investments, start and run your own business and pay your taxes.
Have you ever fallen in love? If yes, it seems that you know about white and dark side of love.
In love as in war, there is one winner.
First of all, you see only the white side of love. You are happy together, he/she is interesting. We have lots of things in common.
All things are pink for you. You think that the whole world is yours. Angels fly around you. You smile. You cry. Your mood changes every second. And all these things happen because of her/him.
You are captured. You can’t breathe without her/him. Every his/her delay makes you unhappy.
Both of you eat out of the same dish. Sleep in the same bed. Sing the same song.
You listen with an open mouth all the words which come out from this mouth.
You are captured again. Captured by his/her kiss, smile, hands…
Then, he/she starts delaying. You waited him/her, but he/she didn’t come.
Dark. Dark around you. You still love him/her, in spite of the fact that you aren’t friends anymore.
Your dreams are full of his/her image. You can’t even eat because he/she isn’t near you.
She/he doesn’t take the phone when you make calls. You saw him/her with another person. Depression.
A dark, very dark depression.
“She/he doesn’t love me anymore. My life doesn’t have any sense”. These phrases are typical for people who were disappointed in love.
How are you? How do you feel today? – Somebody try to return you back.
Back to a normal life. A pink life, where there is only happiness.
And, oh God, in my misspent youth as a housewife, I, too, used to bake bread, in those hectic and desolating days just prior to the woman’s movement, when middle-class women were supposed to be wonderful wives and mothers, gracious hostesses.... I used to feel so womanly when I was baking my filthy bread.
"My first book took five years to write and I made $1,000 on it. The second took three years and I made $3,000. All this time I was a housewife being supported by a husband. I was very lucky. "